Discussions

The author expressed frustration with a lack of focused practice time due to family interruptions and feeling discouraged about their progress, particularly with climbing. They also questioned if their age was a factor in learning.

The author asked if it's possible to combine pole dancing with singing, inspired by a performance art background and a vintage persona. They were considering a stage name and incorporating costumes into the act.

The author shared they are experiencing tinnitus. They did not provide details about their experience, but simply posted an emoji.

The author shared that their husband wants a divorce after six years of marriage and two children, expressing feelings of confusion and hurt. They detailed issues with their husband's past and present substance use, and his unwillingness to work on the marriage.

Someone was having trouble importing music into Windows Movie Maker. They asked for help with getting music from their computer onto the program.

The author shared a concerning health issue – post-sex bleeding – and expressed anxiety about potential STDs. She had a gynecologist appointment scheduled and was seeking support from the community.

A member was having trouble uploading a video to the site, as the original file format wasn't supported and converting it resulted in a shortened video length. They asked for advice on the best file format for uploads and whether to invest in a new camera.

Someone is having trouble with the video quality of recordings made with a Logitech webcam and edited in Windows Movie Maker. They noticed the videos appear clear on their computer but become grainy when uploaded.

Someone shared their first ever video of themselves pole dancing and asked for constructive feedback, admitting they were initially disappointed with how it looked. They were hoping for encouragement and suggestions for improvement.

Someone is having trouble uploading a video to the forum because the file size exceeds the limit. They recorded the video with a new webcam and are looking for suggestions on how to reduce the file size.

The author is experiencing a sudden decrease in their grip strength on a titanium X Pole, despite previous success with cleaning methods. They asked for suggestions to improve grip, and considered trying a grip-enhancing product.

Someone noticed the option to change their nickname on the forum has disappeared and asked if anyone else is experiencing the same issue. They want to update their display name now that they feel established in the community.

A new member from Michigan introduced themself, sharing their recent experience with pole dancing and their new home pole. They are hoping for feedback on videos of their dancing as they learn.

Someone shared a video of a performance blending salsa dancing with pole work, finding it inspiring. They plan to discuss creating something similar with a salsa instructor.

Someone is looking for video tutorials on two specific pole moves: a side climb and a spinning chopper entered from a reverse knee hook spin. They are hoping to find demonstrations of the correct technique.

The author is new to pole dancing and has successfully learned to climb the pole, but is now struggling with learning to spin and grip with their thighs. They are seeking advice on how to overcome these challenges.

The author shared feelings of frustration after a difficult pole practice and a disappointing social situation with a friend. They were looking for a space to vent about these experiences.

Someone shared their excitement about achieving a shoulder mount directly from the floor. They were surprised by their success, noting the entry was easier than the exit, and they experienced a bit of a fall.

Someone shared their excitement about finally achieving several split grip variations, including straight edge, split, and jackknife. They also mentioned struggling with forearm grips and asked for help understanding them.

Someone announced that Jamilla Deville would be teaching classes in New Zealand from March 13th-16th, sharing a link with more information. The author wanted to give people the opportunity to attend.

Someone is seeking advice on building core strength to achieve an inverted V pose. They asked for exercises to help strengthen their abs for this invert.

A member shared their experience being a background dancer in a low-budget horror movie, describing the set, costume, and filming process. They plan to share footage when they receive it from the director.

The author was questioning whether a 33.7mm diameter pole would be suitable for someone with small hands. They were choosing between a smaller diameter pole and a more expensive, standard-sized option.

Someone asked for advice on improving flexibility, specifically for achieving front splits, and mentioned a video they'd seen but couldn't find. They were already working on side splits and wanted to know how others gained flexibility.

A new member introduced themself and expressed excitement about starting a pole dancing journey, asking for advice on purchasing a pole. They were particularly interested in learning from others' experiences.