Discussions

The author was excited to finally purchase a pole but discovered their basement isn't suitable due to an unfinished ceiling and landlord restrictions. They were feeling discouraged and seeking solutions.

The author shared some difficult personal news: they recently learned their job will end in three months, coinciding with their partner’s birthday. They are now starting a job search and asked for support.

A new pole dancer is experiencing significant forearm pain after dancing, suspecting it's due to friction or improper grip. They are seeking advice on how to alleviate the pain and continue progressing.

The author is struggling with aerial choppers and inverts, feeling their abdominal strength isn't sufficient. They asked for tips beyond just doing sit-ups to achieve these moves.

Someone shared a YouTube video of a pole dancer they found inspiring, as they are currently unable to dance due to a finger injury. They hoped it might spark ideas for others, especially those who feel less graceful.

The author, a new student, is feeling discouraged by their lack of progress with climbing, inverts, and elbow stands, citing grip issues, strength limitations, and fear. They asked for advice and to hear about others' experiences.

The author shared positive news about recent medical tests, expressing relief that everything came back negative. They thanked the community for their support and reassurance during a worrying time.

The author is experiencing pain from previously damaged nerves in their inner thigh, which flared up after pole practice. They are asking if anyone else has experience with nerve damage and how they manage it.

Someone is seeking advice on achieving elbow and reverse grips in pole dancing, specifically for moves like the Aysha and caterpillar. They are struggling with the correct anatomy and hand positioning.

A member shared news that their studio would be featured on a television show. They were excited but nervous about how it would turn out.

The author experienced a sudden surge of fear and anxiety, leading them to remove videos from a public platform. They shared feeling unsafe and worried about potential repercussions for their content.

Someone asked about using dance paws to protect their feet while pole dancing, particularly when doing spins on carpet or floors. They were hoping for brand recommendations and fit advice.

Someone recently bought a set of online lessons and is asking for guidance on which ones are suitable for different skill levels. They specifically want to know which lessons are advanced and which are good for beginners.

The author announced they are new to pole dancing and to the forum, sharing their excitement about recently ordering a new pole. They expressed their love of dance and anticipation for learning.

A member shared that they were experiencing lockjaw, unable to open their mouth fully, and asked if others had experienced this. They described the pain and difficulty eating.

The author shared a positive experience returning to pole dancing after a frustrating block, managing an hour-long session including an independent inversion. They also experienced a sudden, painful skin tear on their hands during practice.

The author excitedly shared that they achieved a difficult move, known as the Jade, and was looking for someone to celebrate with after their husband was unavailable. They mentioned the move is very flat and planned to post a video.

The author shared that they are relatively new to the forum, having signed up some time ago but only recently becoming active. They began pole dancing at age 51 and are self-taught, currently using two poles but finding one slippery.

A member announced they changed their username to reflect a new stage name. They wanted to let the community know about the change from their previous username.

The author shared their positive experience with pole dancing classes, mentioning they enjoy the structured learning and attending with their sister. They wish they had space for a home pole.

A new member introduced themself, sharing that they recently got a brass pole and are enjoying learning pole dancing, including climbing and inverting. They are looking to connect with others and continue their pole journey.

The author is beginning their pole dancing journey and is excited to invest in a quality pole for home practice. They are seeking advice on choosing between 45mm and 50mm diameter poles, considering their height and weight and potential future class attendance.

Someone asked about pain while performing a Gemini, specifically with the leg grip. They wondered if the discomfort was normal or if they were doing something incorrectly.

The author shared an update after a gynecology appointment, detailing anxiety about potential health issues related to a previous diagnosis of cervical dysplasia. They were experiencing inflammation and awaiting test results for common STIs.

The author is considering auditioning at a local club after losing her job and shared her experience visiting the club and learning about their amateur night. She is nervous about the audition and is planning a routine.