Discussions

Someone is looking for pole jam opportunities within an hour's drive of Columbia, South Carolina. They are hoping to connect with other dancers in the area.

Someone is looking for recommendations for a free-standing outdoor rig suitable for both Lyra and silks. They are overwhelmed by the number of options available and asked for experiences with different brands.

Someone shared their first experience with a tippy lyra, describing it as very different from a standard lyra and a bit intimidating. They also included a picture for those unfamiliar with the apparatus.

Someone is looking for inspiration for pole dance combos, sharing a sequence they enjoy and asking if others have favourite combinations. They particularly like moves involving aerial inverts and scorpio.

The author is writing a book about successfully teaching pole and making a living, and is seeking feedback from studio owners and instructors. They shared their own experience earning income while avoiding burnout.

The author shared a heartfelt message expressing gratitude and admiration for the community, explaining how it has been a source of strength while navigating a personal battle with depression. They appreciate the support and inspiration found in watching others’ progress.

Someone was having trouble disassembling their pole after wanting to sell it. They loosened the adjuster screws but the pole wouldn't come down, even after trying to spin it for a long time.

Someone is looking to buy a 45 Xpert pole extension, specifically a 12.5 or 25cm piece with the corresponding Xjoint. They are open to brass, chrome, or titanium gold finishes and are located in North England.

Someone recently moved and is having trouble finding a stud to safely mount their pole. They've found their pole feels sturdy, but it's currently only secured to drywall with a gap to a beam above.

Someone asked for advice on helping a student with extremely sweaty hands who is struggling to grip the pole. They were concerned about the student's safety and ability to progress.

Someone shared news of a successful trade for a used X Pole, exchanging it for horse equipment and a purse. They were excited about the deal, despite a dent in the ceiling mount.

The author, new to pole dancing, is looking for advice on getting started at home. She's a former athlete wanting to regain confidence and fitness, and is on a budget.

Someone is looking for a roommate to share a hotel room with while attending a pole dance camp in October. They are very enthusiastic about the event and hoping to connect with others going.

A member initiated a thread to organise a European-based group stretching session, initially suggesting Skype or Veena chat. The author wanted to connect with others who might struggle with US time zones.

Someone with a chrome pole is experiencing slippage in winter and is looking for recommendations for powder coating services in the Chicago area. They are concerned about whether the preparation process is correct for chrome poles.

Someone is conducting research on the sociocultural and physiological effects of pole dancing while travelling the world, and asked for recommendations for studios to visit, particularly in Europe. They also shared a survey for pole dancers to contribute to their database.

The author is trying to remove black box dye from their hair and return to blonde, but initial attempts with color removers left them with copper and brown tones. They asked if they should try bleaching or applying a medium brown dye at home.

Someone asked about getting pole dance certified to teach beginner classes, including the cost and where to find programs. They were looking for information on what it takes to become qualified.

Someone is asking for input on which pole finish to choose – titanium gold (TG) or brass. They are hoping to hear about other people’s experiences with different finishes.

Someone is celebrating finally mastering a Scorpio pole move after months of practice. They are now struggling with arm placement during leg switches and are looking for suggestions.

Someone asked about choosing the right length of pole silks, noting the manufacturer didn't provide guidance. They were hoping to hear from others who had purchased them.

A member asked about experiences ordering from Glitter Heels, as their partner was inquiring about shipping and they hadn't received a response to their initial inquiries. They were concerned about a potential delay for an anniversary gift.

The author posted to wish the webmaster a happy birthday and express gratitude for their work in maintaining the community platform. They feel they wouldn't be able to share their passion without the webmaster's efforts.

A new pole dancer shared their experience with forearm pain, likely from attempting split grip too soon. They described a stabbing pain in their left forearm when leaning, and asked about what might be causing it.

Someone shared a new lesson on a side sit pole move, including a twisty spin entry and exit. They posted a link to the lesson for others to check out.