Discussions

Someone shared information about an Alethea Austin workshop in Kalamazoo, Michigan, including pricing for private sessions and the workshop itself. They noted it might be accessible to those in the Chicago area.

The author is having trouble disassembling their pole after it was stuck together during a move. They are seeking advice on how to separate the pieces quickly, as they are running out of time before a trip.

Someone is looking for advice on stretching out the clear plastic on new pole shoes. They are finding the shoes shrink back to their original size after being worn, making them difficult to get on during a performance.

A member shared their anxiety about getting a full STD screening, stemming from past unprotected sex and concerns about a former partner's behaviour. They were particularly worried about the possibility of a positive HIV result.

Someone asked for guidance on transitioning from a butterfly to an aysha pose, and also requested general information about aysha grips. They were hoping to explore different grip options for the move.

The author shared plans for a Valentine's Day pole dance and lap dance for her husband, including a creatively themed 'VIP pass'. She was looking for inspiration from others.

Someone discovered a new circus arts studio offering pole, silks, stilts and juggling nearby. They shared their excitement about the new options and the fact the instructors are male.

The author is thrilled to announce they will be starting to teach pole dance classes on Monday. They credit a connection made at a pole jam for this opportunity, and are excited to combine the athletic and sensual aspects of the art form.

The author shared excitement about a recent boudoir photoshoot with a photographer and plans for a pole photoshoot in the spring. They posted some unretouched photos and expressed surprise at enjoying the experience despite initial nervousness.

The author initiated a discussion about the inherent sexuality of pole dancing and why it's often downplayed. They believe embracing this aspect can be empowering and healthy.

Someone was experiencing a slippery, 'sweating' feeling on their brass pole after cleaning it with standard products. They wondered if it was a metal issue or related to their body temperature, especially while training for a competition.

Someone shared details about a pole jam happening on a Sunday afternoon at a studio in Dallas. They included information about the time, location, cost, and pole sizes available.

The author recently purchased a brass pole that is excessively slippery, making it difficult to perform moves despite having sufficient strength. They are seeking suggestions for grip aids or solutions to the issue, as standard methods aren't working.

The author is celebrating achieving an inverted crucifix and is now looking for guidance on what to learn next. They are equally strong in their upper and lower body and are wondering whether to focus on moves going 'up' from the invert or 'down' into handstands.

Someone asked about the best way to clean the factory polish off a new X-pole. They wondered whether to use soap and water, alcohol, or something else.

Someone shared positive feedback about a warm-up routine from a pole instructor, saying it significantly improved their experience. They hadn't previously prioritized warming up but found it made poling easier and more enjoyable.

The author is hesitant to post videos of their pole dancing due to privacy concerns, especially regarding potential unwanted attention from people they know. They are worried about past experiences with online stalking and want to know if others share these concerns.

The author introduced themself as a new pole dancer from Southampton, sharing their current skill level and excitement about getting a home pole. They were looking forward to connecting with other members of the community.

A new member introduced themself and shared that they are looking to start pole dancing but weren't sure where to begin. They are located in the south of England and asked for guidance.

Someone asked if there are other pole dancers in Idaho to practice with, acknowledging they are still learning. They were hoping to find a practice buddy.

The author found a purchased pole dance DVD lacking in progressive instruction for beginners and asked for recommendations for more helpful resources. They were particularly curious about Jamilla and Veena's instructional materials.

Someone new to pole dance shared their positive experience taking a lesson in Austin, Texas, and supplementing their learning with online lessons from a specific instructor. They are excited about their new pole and practicing at home.

The author started a thread asking for tips on preventing and treating bruises, rope burn, and muscle soreness. They shared some suggestions they’d already received, like arnica and Epsom salts, and asked for others’ experiences.

The author is new to pole dancing and excited to explore it at home after learning about it from members of a different online community. They are wondering if they can realistically learn with no prior upper body strength and a busy schedule.

Someone announced the creation of a Facebook page for their studio. They shared the page with the community, responding to previous requests for one.