Discussions

A performer announced they are regularly performing at a nightclub in Los Angeles, featuring aerial pole work. They hope to help bring pole dancing into the mainstream and invited people to come see the show.

Someone shared information about the Ink N Iron festival in Long Beach, California, highlighting the pole dance performances and other attractions like tattoo artists and a vintage car show. They shared their excitement about attending and invited others from the community to connect.

Someone shared information about upcoming workshops with Jamilla Deville at BeSpun in Los Angeles on April 12th and 13th, including times, prices, and contact information. The post detailed the pole heights available at the studio.

A new member introduced themself, sharing their pole dancing level and excitement about joining the community. They were encouraged to explore the site and were wishing everyone a happy Easter.

The author shared their experience of falling off the pole due to a loose connection, thankfully without injury beyond a sore spot and a sacrificed beer. They reflected on the relief of finally experiencing a fall they had long anticipated and emphasized the importance of checking poles before use.

The author is struggling with sticking to the pole, even when inverting, and feels very slippery. They are looking for suggestions to improve their grip, despite living in a dry climate and trying grip aids.

The author is trying to learn a pole move called the 'Holly Drop', which they are finding difficult to find information about. They are looking for tutorials or pointers on the move, noting it seems similar to other transitions.

A new member from Brazil introduced herself and expressed excitement about finding the community. She was seeking help with purchasing online lessons due to payment method limitations and also asked for advice on managing sweaty hands.

Someone new to the forum introduced themselves, sharing they've been pole dancing for a year and a half and is starting to connect with others in the Chicago area. They were looking to network with other pole dancers.

A new member from Ontario, Canada, introduced themself to the community, sharing their excitement about starting pole dancing and asking for pole recommendations. They are new to the activity and haven't purchased a pole yet.

A new member shared that they are a ballroom dancer recently getting into pole dancing and asked for advice. They are located in Utah and excited to connect with others.

The author, new to pole dancing, introduced themself and shared their background in dance and their reasons for wanting to try pole. They were hoping to connect with others and document their journey.

Someone new to the forum shared that they are in Phoenix and excited to learn more about pole dancing. They were introduced to the site by a friend.

The author shared their struggle with inconsistent motivation for pole, experiencing cycles of intense interest followed by periods of disengagement. They've had this pattern with other hobbies and are frustrated by the impact on their progress.

Someone was looking to purchase a titanium gold Xpert Xpole but found it was currently out of stock. They asked if stock levels on the forum mirrored those on the official Xpole website and enquired about typical backorder wait times.

The author wished a member a happy birthday and playfully asked if they would share a special dance. They included several bomb emojis with their message.

Someone is anxious about ordering an expensive pole from a particular website and asked if others have had positive experiences with the site. They were hoping for reassurance that it’s a legitimate dealer.

The author is experiencing issues with a newly purchased pole that catches and wobbles when spinning, despite following troubleshooting steps. They are concerned the pole may be warped and are seeking further advice.

Someone is looking to connect with pole studio owners in Indiana, Ohio, Wisconsin, and Minnesota. They requested interested parties to send a private message.

The author is looking for graceful dismount ideas for pole dancing in a bar with limited space and a carpeted floor. They typically perform moves like Gemini, Scorpio, and Inverted Crucifix and are concerned about safely getting down from inverts.

Someone shared a video of pole dancer Danielle Rueda-Watts and asked if anyone knew about her or could identify a specific move she performs around the 1:12 mark. They were impressed by her musicality and technique.

Someone shared their work creating custom silhouettes of pole dancers, inspired by positive feedback from friends. They are offering a special promotion to the community.

Someone asked for advice on performing a knee hold without crossing their ankles, as they find the crossed-ankle version awkward with heels. They recalled seeing a previous discussion about this technique but couldn't find it.

The author experienced numbness in their fingers after a pole session and asked if others had experienced something similar. They described the sensation as a tingling numbness, like a limb falling asleep.

The author is looking for advice on how to pole dance outdoors without getting sunburned, specifically in California. They are concerned about sunscreen being too greasy and affecting their grip.