Discussions

Someone shared exciting news about their appearance on a baking competition show, Cupcake Wars, with Rob Zombie as a judge. They and their business partner, also a pole dancer, hope fellow community members will tune in to watch and offer support.

A new member introduced Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), also known as 'Tapping', as a way to overcome mental blocks in pole dancing and asked if there would be interest in a paid service. They shared their personal experience with the technique.

Someone is experiencing chest pain when twisting and suspects it might be costochondritis, possibly from overtraining. They asked if anyone else has experience with this condition and how long it took to heal.

Someone is experiencing soreness and weakness in their arms and shoulders, particularly the dominant side, after teaching pole classes and during spins. They are looking for tips to manage the discomfort despite already using Epsom salts and anti-inflammatories.

Someone shared their recent certification as a doula and wondered if any other members also work in birth or post-birth support. They are planning to offer post-birth doula services once their youngest child starts school.

Someone is looking for recommendations for pole dance posters to decorate their pole room, including both instructional and artistic options. They had trouble finding good options through a general search.

The author is deciding between an X-Pole brass or a powder-coated pole due to a nickel allergy and wants to know which offers better grip and is less likely to cause skin rips. They are also considering having their current chrome pole powder coated.

The author is worried about her father's reaction to her pole performance, which involves revealing outfits and sensual movements. She feels uncomfortable performing in front of him but doesn't want to hurt his feelings.

Someone asked how long others can pole for continuously, noting they tire after about twenty minutes, and wanted to know how to increase stamina. They were curious about how others structure their sessions.

The author shared a TED talk about how movements gain traction when people openly participate and asked if the pole community should be more open about their hobby with people in their everyday lives. They used yoga as an example of a practice that became destigmatized through visibility.

The author described a compulsion to climb and invert on everything they encounter, comparing it to a 'monkey' feeling. They wondered if others experienced this urge to assess and attempt climbs on everyday objects.

This person is hoping to install a pole at home but is facing resistance from their parents due to the age of the house. They are considering an Xstage as an alternative, but are concerned about its stability.

Someone is attending a pole dance camp in Nashville next weekend and is hoping to find a place to stay to save money after a large bill. They offered to cover their own expenses.

The author shared a video about normalizing nudity around children, sparking a discussion about personal experiences and comfort levels. They questioned why society often hides nudity when it doesn't have to be shameful.

Someone asked about issues uploading pole dance performance videos to Youtube due to copyright claims on the music used. They were curious how others navigate this problem with popular songs.

Someone was asking about the Fly Gym and whether it was worth the cost, especially with expensive shipping to Australia. They were looking for experiences from others who own one.

Someone described a pole move learned in class – starting in a pole sit and curling into a fetal position – and asked if it had another name. They were hoping to find a visual reference to show a partner.

The author is wondering whether to start pole dancing now, despite recent weight gain and a lack of exercise, or to wait until they become stronger and lighter. They are feeling overwhelmed about when to begin.

Someone new to pole dancing asked for help with pain in their arm while attempting their first spin. They wanted to know what they might be doing wrong.

The author is seeking ideas for double pole moves on a static stage pole, noting the challenges of height and wobble. They are looking for suggestions beyond moves requiring spinning or significant height differences.

The author noticed rust-like spots appearing on their chrome pole after several years of use, despite regular cleaning. They are concerned about the cause, suspecting the humid coastal environment, and are looking for solutions to fix it.

The author shared a story about being mistaken for a stripper after posting a pole dance video online, and the resulting reactions from friends, family, and online commenters. They were generally unbothered by the negative comments but noted their mother was upset.

Someone shared a video featuring techniques for improving grip on the pole. They hoped others would find the resource helpful and planned to try it themselves.

Someone asked for music recommendations with a similar sound to a specific song from the "Queen of the Damned" soundtrack, describing it as having a particular feel. They were hoping to find more music like it.

The author shared their journey to pole dance, starting in 2012 and recently returning to classes. They expressed how much they enjoy it and are excited to install a home pole.