HATERS!

PoleDancingG started this discussion · 10/18/2013

SO after i posted my HATER video on Facebook Lol I had a girl tell me "I had no idea you where a stripper!!" lol! One of my students was like no she is an instructor MY Instructor!! Ahhh I love My girls!! <3 I said "No not a stripper but I do love them!! =)" She posted back "OH i thought you where and I think so does every one else lol..." I said "The people that KNOW me know I'm not a stripper." Then my MOM goes off lol... ohhhh lord!! I knew people where going to call me a stripper rite off the bat it, doesn't bug me at all, they probably call me worse things lol... It sucks because my family wants to support me 100% but they all (well most) still kinda see it as stripping and want me to promote more of the "Fitness" aspect which I do!! Then some hater is going to post that ugh! I know it bugged my mom =/..

5 replies

kmccool · 10/18/2013
That is so cool that your students and family have got your back. And bless your momma's heart for standing up for you. I'm sure it bugged her a lot to have someone call her daughter a stripper. :) I know my own mother and her old fashion ways would have flipped.
tiggertail · 10/18/2013
I think the best way to handle it is to stick for yourself. You've got nothing to be ashamed and the more we talk openely about our sport, more people will know about it. Imagine my surprise when a 8 years old neighbour came into my house look at my pole and said '' oh you do exercise on it?'' But hey 8 years old are way cooler than grown up anyway. As for you mom and family, of course they are scare, to see you being hurt by what people say but also to have people judging them. You have an amazing mom😉
Yanille79 · 10/18/2013
Girl I had same drama . my mom supports me 100% she's even come to my studio and seen girls perform. The girls I worked with at hospital talked so much shit about me cuz my fb pics .and they were appropriate . not even videos pics .people post pics in bikinis I was wearing shorts and a tank. Guess what happened a year later the group of haters started taking pole classes after all the crap they said about me. It's jealousy don't listen and be proud..
IrishOrla · 10/18/2013
To me girls I agree with the above, it's jealousy. Definitely. Pole is widespread now and more and more girls are taking part. People who call You a "stripper" obviously are so annoyed at themselves that you look damn good using all your strength pulling awesome moves! Haters are Guna hate :) lets give them the fuel for their hatred .. Keep posting them pics and vids. Hehe.
PoleDancingG · 10/18/2013
Ya it doesn't bother me in-fact I probably secretly enjoy the attention lol.... And I know all those girls calling me names are DYING to take a class lol!!! There so silly you have to laugh!! If you met my mom you would love her (no filter stay at home mom)! In fact when I was way younger she would say she always had a fantasy to dance on a pole on stage so every one can watch her, just once!! Low and behold dancing on a pole would take over my life!!\ I am very lucky to have a loving supporting family!!