Discussions

The author is a beginner who has been pole dancing for four months and feels lost and unfocused, unsure of what moves to learn next. They are looking for a structured plan to progress their skills.

The author, new to pole dancing, is asking for advice on preventing or dealing with calluses on their hands. They are hoping to avoid using hand protection if possible.

Someone asked about the difference between titanium and chrome poles, specifically X-Pole in 45mm. They were curious about which one to choose and acknowledged it might be a basic question.

The author shared that they discovered their boyfriend has become very close to a female client's wife, including frequent communication and gift-giving. They feel guilty for looking through their boyfriend's messages and are seeking support.

The author expressed frustration with their pole progress, feeling stuck despite effort and comparing themselves to others. They questioned their ability to learn and wondered if lessons would help.

The author is considering building a pole at home due to budget constraints and is asking for advice on the best method – a ceiling-mounted pole with a floor stabilizer or a platform-supported pole. They are concerned about stability and safety, especially as a beginner.

The author cautioned against pole dancing while intoxicated, explaining it increases the risk of injury. They shared this concern and asked others to avoid it.

The author was considering purchasing a "Flirtygirl" fitness pole and asked for opinions on its value compared to more expensive options like X-Pole. They were drawn to the lower price and included DVDs.

This member is introducing themself to the community, sharing their dance background and their new focus on pole artistry. They have aspirations to teach and potentially open a pole school.

The author shared that they posted their first pole dance video, explaining it was a confidence-building step before participating in the May challenge. They wanted to showcase their personality in the video.

The author is navigating a disagreement with her husband about posting pole dance videos online. He's uncomfortable with the exposure, and she values the feedback and inspiration she gets from sharing her progress.

The author, new to pole, is seeking tips for inverting without jumping or bruising. They’re finding a recommended ‘roll’ technique difficult.

Someone is looking for pole dance studios in or near Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, as they are having trouble finding options through online searches. They are willing to drive up to an hour and are hoping for a studio with instructors who can provide corrections and spotting.

Someone was curious about how others in the community are recording their pole dance videos. They asked what equipment people are using, like webcams, digital cameras, or video recorders.

Someone shared their excitement about finally achieving a difficult pole move, the 'chopper', after three months of practice. They also included a picture of themselves performing the move.

Someone is hosting a pole party for coworkers who are new to pole dancing and asked for suggestions on what moves would be fun to teach beginners. They are looking for ideas for a first-time pole experience.

The author is new to pole dancing and excited to learn, but is facing resistance from their partner who doesn't understand it as an art form. They are asking how long it typically takes others to learn pole dancing.

The author is working on several intermediate pole moves – carousel, corkscrew, and side spin extension – and asked for advice on technique and strength requirements. They specifically questioned back arching in the carousel and the push-off for the corkscrew.

The author shared that they assisted teaching their first beginner pole class and expressed excitement about potentially making it a career. They were seeking encouragement from the community.

The author is considering switching from Windows to Linux, inspired by their husband's positive experience with Ubuntu. They are seeking opinions from other community members about using Linux, particularly regarding different distributions.

A new member joined the community and shared that she is a mother of two hoping pole dancing will help boost her self-confidence. She expressed excitement about joining the forum.

Someone new to the forum introduced themself, sharing that they’ve been poling since 2008 and are getting an X-pole after a move. They mentioned difficulty finding a local studio for classes.

A new member introduced themself, sharing they recently joined the community and are excited to start pole dancing after ordering a pole. They mentioned being originally from York, UK but currently living in Germany.

The author wished all the mothers in the community a happy Mother's Day, expressing her appreciation for them. She shared a heartfelt message acknowledging the importance of motherhood.

Someone was experiencing some achiness in their ribs after trying a conditioning exercise for inverts, involving holding the pole at shoulder height and lifting knees. They asked if this was normal or a sign they needed to adjust their technique.