Need your opinions!
Foxy_Rei started this discussion Β·
I'll try to keep this to the point: In my "My December" video I mentioned being stressed and such and one of the reasons is fighting with the husband. And one of the things he's upset about is me posting videos and pictures without him kinda sorta approving it first. He doesn't like the idea of me posting videos of me half-dressed (or undressing) and dancing publicly on the internet. Granted, this isn't YouTube, but he's still squeemish about the idea. I kinda see where he's coming from, but the feedback from my videos is what helps me get better and the positive comments from everyone enjoying them is what inspires me to keep going. He doesn't know about nearly all the videos on here now and I hate that disappointed look on his face because he feels like I'm doing something behind his back (which I kinda am). So I see it from both sides. So this is what I'm going to propose: that I only leave up my videos temporarily. Meaning I'd take down all the ones I've posted and leave any new ones up for a few weeks or so. That way I get my feedback, people still get to see my progress, and it isn't up forever and maybe that will be a good compromise with the husband. I haven't run this idea by him yet, I'm just looking to see what you all think. By the way, please don't read too much into this about my husband... I've mentioned before in chat that he doesn't like me on webcam either and that got some negative comments. He's just nervous because it's the internet and you never really know who's out there, and he's also kinda possessive of me in the sense that he doesn't like the idea of other people seeing... um, skin (and combine that with the whole internet thing and there you go). I'm just trying to find a way to meet in the middle here... Thanks! π
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