Discussions

The author was upset after her husband secretly watched practice videos she took, feeling embarrassed about her current skill level and a lack of privacy. She questioned whether others are comfortable dancing for their partners.

The discussion centers around Platinum Stages' new "Extreme Poles," which are removable and come in various materials and sizes, as well as a new freestanding pole. The author questioned the viability of a portable brass pole.

A new member introduced herself, sharing her background as a Marine wife, mother of three, and student. She's rediscovering pole dancing after a long break and is excited to join the supportive community.

Someone is planning a pole party for around ten friends and is asking for ideas on themes, decorations, and activities. They plan to teach some basic moves themselves, rather than hiring an instructor.

A member shared exciting news about finding a pole dance class in their area that welcomes men, and the instructor is the renowned Jessalynn Medairy. The author expressed great enthusiasm about learning from her.

Someone shared a video of a hoop dance performance, thinking others in the community might enjoy it. They expressed their own appreciation for the artist's work.

The author shared videos of a pole dancer’s performances from a gala, noting the difference between seeing someone live versus on video. They also discussed a past competition rule discouraging overtly ‘sexy’ performances in a German competition.

The author shared several videos of their pole and hoop performances from past shows. They mentioned they plan to share new videos in the same thread as they create them.

The author is excited to be back to pole dancing after a break and shared their initial experience. They noted some deconditioning but were pleased to still be able to do certain moves, like the caterpillar and straight edge.

A new member from Ireland introduced themselves, sharing they are setting up a home pole after enjoying classes previously and expressed excitement about the community. They were simply saying hello.

The author is asking for advice on video editing software to remove mistakes and add finishing touches to their pole dance practice videos. They are hoping to find a free option, and are open to downloading software online.

The author shared photos from a recent pole jam with around fifteen people, noting the group is growing quickly. They expressed excitement for the next gathering.

Someone shared photos from a recent pole session with their husband, noting they are still learning. They were hoping for feedback on the pictures.

Someone asked how to delete their account on the platform, noting they couldn't find the option themselves. They were hoping for guidance on the process.

The author announced they are moving to Seattle and looking for a pole buddy once their pole is set up. They shared a friendly greeting to the community.

A new member shared that they recently started pole dancing and are enjoying the strength gains and creative outlet it provides. They are excited to be part of the community.

The community is participating in a July challenge to celebrate Michael Jackson's life and music. The author shared this as a tribute to the artist.

The author is planning to open a pole dance studio and is seeking advice from experienced owners and instructors. They are particularly concerned about finding qualified instructors and choosing the right client management software.

The author shared that she's had breast implants and is considering a tummy tuck after having children, due to feeling self-conscious about loose skin while pole dancing. She asked if other moms have had similar feelings or experiences with plastic surgery.

A new member introduced herself to the forum, sharing her background as a pole dance instructor and studio owner. She mentioned recently starting a new job and going back to school.

A new pole dancer is experiencing a frustrating issue with their stainless steel pole becoming sticky during use, even with air conditioning and attempts to wipe it down. They are seeking advice on how to resolve this and also asked about shipping for clothing from a specific brand.

The author is struggling with excessively sweaty palms, making it difficult to maintain a grip on the pole during routines. They’ve tried various grip aids and cleaning methods without success and are seeking solutions.

The author shared exciting news about getting a job after a few years of unemployment. They were thrilled to have an offer and start next week, even though they forgot to negotiate their salary.

Someone was feeling a little frustrated after a pole session and asked for suggestions on building arm strength without weights. They specifically want to improve for moves like split grips, jackknifes, and handsprings.

The author is a new member from Trenton, Michigan, who recently resumed pole practice at home after recovering from arm and wrist issues. They expressed appreciation for the website and the flexibility of online instruction.