Discussions

Someone shared their excitement about receiving a pair of sweatpants from a particular brand, praising their fit and comfort. They encouraged others to purchase a pair as well, especially with the holidays approaching.

Someone shared videos of a performer named Spyda, noting her dynamic style and wondering if a pole move was named after her. The author was impressed by a particular split move.

Someone posted inviting others to join them for a Christmas Eve pole session if they found themselves with free time. They wished everyone a Merry Christmas.

Someone announced the opening of their new pole and aerial studio in Hong Kong, hoping members might visit if travelling there. They offer classes in pole, aerial hoop, and silks.

Someone shared that they need to rest their non-dominant arm due to an injury and asked for ideas for pole moves they can practice using only their dominant arm. They mentioned being able to do twirls and working on reverse grabs.

The author is an intermediate poler looking for advice on what moves to learn next, specifically the straight edge, brass monkey, and Aysha. They feel stuck repeating the same moves and want to progress.

The author is seeking advice on two challenging pole moves: the hip hold (legs in a V-shape with no hands) and the jade split. They can perform a no-handed scorpio but are struggling to find the correct grip and balance for these inversions.

The author shared frustration with a friend who is new to pole and constantly compares her progress to others, wanting to learn advanced moves immediately. They wondered if this experience is common for beginners.

Someone asked how to identify a genuine X Pole, as they learned counterfeit versions exist. They were unsure how to check for markings on the base as described in another post.

The author shared that a planned pole jam was threatened by a snowstorm, potentially moving it to their home. They were disappointed but determined to make it happen if possible.

The author is preparing to start pole dancing but is currently saving for a pole. They asked for suggestions on how to get in shape and prepare their body while waiting to purchase one.

Someone expressed feeling uncomfortable with a suggestive message received from a male member on the site. They questioned the individual's motives for joining the pole dancing community and shared their loss of confidence.

Someone asked about a pole move called the 'jezebel'. They were hoping to find information about what the move actually is.

The author expressed concerns about posting videos to the site, specifically worrying about them being perceived negatively or shared without permission. They were also hesitant due to the site's disclaimer and a desire for more privacy controls.

The author is experiencing a plateau in their pole journey, struggling with new moves like caterpillar climb, Aysha, and teddy, and finding even familiar moves difficult due to a slippery pole and feeling physically off. They asked for advice on whether to focus on one move at a time.

A new member introduced themself to the community, sharing their excitement about starting pole dance and receiving an X-Pole as a birthday gift. They are located in Pittsburgh and a relatively new beginner.

Members were coordinating attendance for a pole jam in Maryland, with a limit of 19 participants. The discussion included travel plans, potential Friday night activities, and lodging arrangements.

The author is attending their first open pole practice session and asked for tips on how to structure an hour of practice without a set routine, as they usually attend classes. They are an intermediate poler working on inversions.

Someone shared an older video of a Santa Baby pole dance routine, originally filmed around 2.5 months into their pole journey. They had been asked to repost it as it was no longer easily accessible.

The author excitedly shared that they recently received a pole as a Christmas gift but must wait to open it. They also discussed their weight loss journey and expressed hope to reach a goal weight by Christmas.

The author shared their positive experience trying aerial silks and is hoping to install one at home. They are looking for recommendations for instructional DVDs to help them learn.

The author is struggling with Seasonal Affective Disorder (S.A.D.) and a lack of motivation to pole dance during the darker, rainy winter months. They are seeking suggestions for coping mechanisms to overcome this annual slump.

The author is frustrated after returning from vacation to find cold weather preventing pole practice in their unheated garage. They are concerned about strength loss after a three-week break and wish for more accessible studio time.

The author received a Carmen Electra pole as a gift and is concerned about its quality and slipperiness, especially as a beginner. They were hoping for feedback from others who have used this particular pole.

A member shared a survey about their pole journey and invited others to participate. They asked about when people started, how they got into pole, equipment, and favourite dancers and songs.