Discussions

A member started a discussion about unexpectedly high postage costs when ordering from US websites, particularly for those in Australia. They were concerned about the expense compared to shipping from the UK.

The author shared their pole goals for the month, which include several advanced moves like inverted crucifix, advanced plank, and scorpio. They were looking to focus on these skills in their training.

The author started a thread to publicly thank representatives from several pole and stage companies for their excellent customer service. They specifically mentioned positive experiences with Lil Mynx Poles and Platinum Stages.

The author was researching permanent spinning pole options, specifically Platinum Stages (PS) poles, and asked about installation details and the ability to switch finishes. They were also concerned about ensuring their home's structure could support the pole.

Someone shared a video of a recent pole performance, expressing pride in their progress and enjoyment of the pole community. They also shared the exciting news of being seven weeks pregnant.

Someone noticed their pole is flexing at the mid-joint and asked if it's safe to continue using it. They described a gap appearing where the pole sections screw together.

Someone shared a tutorial video demonstrating how to do a shoulder mount flip to sit on the pole. They created the video in response to requests from other members wanting to learn the move.

The author asked if weight training can hinder flexibility, noting many pole dancers are both strong and flexible but wondering if they could be *more* flexible without muscle work. They sought experiences and knowledge on the topic.

Someone shared that they are shaving their head in support of their mother-in-law who was recently diagnosed with cancer. They are collecting donations for Macmillan Cancer Support.

The author is excited to be starting a new job teaching beginner pole and asked for advice on how to be a good instructor and make classes fun. They are an intermediate poler themselves.

The author, a beginner, asked whether it's better to practice inverts barefoot or in heels. They recently achieved their first crucifix and basic invert and are looking for guidance.

Someone asked the community about pole dance journaling, as they were interested in starting one but weren't sure what to include. They wanted to know what other people's journals look like.

Someone is visiting Columbus, Ohio the week of May 6th and is looking for recommendations for intermediate or advanced pole or silks classes. They asked the community for suggestions.

The author is preparing for performances and a competition with a dramatic piece, but feels they dance too quickly and struggle to connect with the music and character. They are seeking advice on how to slow down and command the stage.

Someone asked about leg stretching machines, wondering if anyone uses them and which brands are good. They were hoping to find a way to improve their flexibility.

Someone asked for advice on which inversion to learn after mastering the crucifix – Scorpio, Gemini, or extended butterfly. They were hoping for suggestions on the best order to progress.

Someone is selling a used 50mm Xpole, including the carry bag, for $260 or best offer. They are located in Tennessee and asked interested parties to reach out.

Someone was curious about the durability of powder coated poles, specifically the Veena pole, and whether the finish would wear off with use. They asked if others had experienced issues with chipping or fading.

Someone was looking to purchase an aerial hammock and asked for recommendations on where to buy one. They were hoping for a seller or a referral to a reputable supplier.

Someone is struggling to get into a Brass Monkey at home, despite being able to do it at the studio. They are finding it difficult to twist into the position from a layback and are looking for tips.

The author is considering purchasing a used Carmen Electra pole for $50 as a temporary solution while saving for a higher-quality pole. They are a beginner and want to know if it's suitable for basic tricks.

Someone noticed a significant increase in shipping costs from Bad Kitty to Australia and questioned if the price was correct. They were concerned the higher costs would make the brand unaffordable.

The author expressed frustration with people of color rejecting their racial identity, sharing a video as an example. They feel this self-hatred is more damaging than external racism.

Someone is having trouble installing a new platinum stages pole, specifically getting the pole to connect to the base plate after the base is already secured to the floor. They noted the installation process differs from their previous poles.

The author is preparing for their first pole performance and asked for advice on how to embody the music and put on a great show, including what to do if they make mistakes. They also asked for general performance tips.