Discussions

The author shared that they are hoping to lose weight to improve their pole dancing, as their current weight impacts their confidence and ability. They asked for suggestions on diet, pole techniques, and other exercises.

The author asked for advice on teaching their 11-year-old twin boys pole moves and how to navigate discussing their hobby with them, especially given concerns about societal perceptions. They want to avoid reinforcing negative stereotypes.

Someone invited others to join the chat room for a casual hello and conversation. They noticed several members were already online and extended a friendly invitation.

A new member introduced themself, sharing excitement about purchasing a pole and hoping it will boost confidence and aid in weight loss. They are looking forward to progressing in their pole journey.

The author is a new member from the UK who has long admired pole dancing and is hoping to learn it for fitness and as a gift for her partner. She is feeling nervous about starting and asked for support from the community.

The author was asking for advice on sizing for Pleaser shoes, as they typically wear a 6.5 but those sizes aren't always available. They shared links to several styles they were considering.

The author is feeling discouraged because they suddenly lost the ability to perform a move they had previously mastered. They are upset about the setback and feeling like they're back at the beginning.

A member with a ballet background offered to create introductory videos for the community, using the pole and chair as a barre. They sought feedback on what to include, such as terminology or resources for further learning.

The author expressed frustration after their twin quickly learned a pole move they've been struggling with for weeks. They were feeling discouraged and questioning their progress.

Someone accidentally made a private video intended for their deployed husband public on the forum. They have since fixed the main issue but are concerned about a remaining thumbnail image.

A member shared that they were targeted by a negative and harassing video created by another user, including a derogatory comment. They filed a copyright complaint with YouTube and alerted the community.

The author is working on the chopper and butterfly inverts, and is struggling to achieve a vertical position in the chopper without rounding their back and straining it. They are looking for pointers to improve their form.

Someone asked about the "windshield wiper" move in pole dancing, having heard it mentioned but not knowing what it looks like. They referenced a performance by a well-known dancer.

Someone shared a video of Miss Pole Dance Belgium, noting impressive moves like a split-leg handstand and a chopper to superman transition. They were initially unimpressed but changed their mind.

Someone is considering a new rental property but the only suitable room has a vaulted ceiling. They are questioning whether their current pole can be safely installed and are considering switching to a different brand.

The author was hoping to start a new acne treatment but needs to lower high triglyceride levels first. They asked for food suggestions and exercise ideas, as they are limited by shin splints and budget.

Someone expressed a desire for a pole dance buddy in Wisconsin, inspired by a video of friends having fun together. They jokingly asked someone to move to the state.

Someone recently purchased a new chrome pole and is finding it very slippery compared to the poles used in their classes. They asked if other users have experienced this and if there are any solutions to improve the grip.

The author encountered someone claiming a professional dancer used Coca-Cola to clean their pole for better grip. They wondered if there was any truth to this unusual method, questioning if it would work or just leave everything sticky.

The author shared a detailed explanation of how a musical background can enhance pole dance choreography and performance. They discussed elements of music and how to listen for them to create more emotionally resonant routines.

Someone shared a video of their attempt at the Extended Butterfly pose, noting they were very close to achieving it and asked for tips. They also apologised for potentially posting in the wrong section of the forum.

The author shared that one of their photographs was published in a magazine, but incorrectly credited to another photographer. They also mentioned noticing positive physical changes after a week of pole dancing.

Someone asked for advice on performing a body wave on the pole, noting they could climb well but struggled with the undulation. They also wondered if a lesson on the technique might be helpful.

The author is looking for pole dance partners in the New York area, specifically someone near Dutchess County. They are finishing a class and feeling a bit isolated as the only remaining student.

Someone shared a positive experience with an online dancewear retailer, recommending it for its selection, prices, shipping, and customer service. They highlighted it as superior to other companies they've used.