Discussions

The author asked how people respond when others refer to their pole as a "stripper pole", wanting to distance the activity from that association. They acknowledge enjoying pole dance but dislike the limited perception it creates.

A new member introduced themself, sharing they teach pole in Nashville and are a chemistry student. They gave a brief overview of their life and expressed excitement about joining the community.

A new member shared that they are finding pole dancing challenging, particularly with building upper body strength and achieving a pole sit. They are a young, single parent and asked for advice.

A new member from New Mexico introduced themself and asked for beginner pole dancing advice. They are very new to the activity and looking for resources to get started.

The author is experiencing issues with underarm sweat and deodorant effectiveness, leading to stained clothing and is asking for product recommendations. They are looking for something that will prevent visible sweat marks.

Someone is selling a pole that they recently purchased, hoping to recoup some of the cost. They are asking for 159 plus shipping.

The author started a discussion about the motivations behind pole dancing, sharing their own reasons which include fun, self-expression, and the physical benefits. They noticed a shift towards fitness-focused studios and wanted to hear others' perspectives.

A member introduced themself as being new to the forum and located in Northern Virginia. They were hoping to connect with local pole dancers for jams and friendship.

Someone is starting a pole dancing society and needs fundraising ideas to purchase four poles. They are hoping to raise £2000 and are considering the X-stage poles.

The author is considering purchasing a pole for home use and is unsure whether to get a 45mm or 50mm diameter. They shared their physical stats and goals for pole dancing, including weight loss and enjoyment.

Someone is hoping to buy a titanium Xpole but finds it currently too expensive. They are asking if anyone is selling a used one, and mentioned they are located in Pennsylvania.

Someone asked about a spin done in an attitude position without hooking the legs on the pole, noting they struggle with leaning back. They were looking for technique tips to achieve the move.

A new member introduced themself, sharing they are from Columbus, Ohio and recently started pole dancing with a home pole and lessons. They expressed excitement about joining the community.

Someone asked about the best way to travel with their portable pole on a plane for an extended trip, specifically wondering if an X-Pole would fit inside a Platinum Stages case. They were concerned about potential loss or damage during air travel.

Someone is having trouble viewing videos on the forum with their computer. They have a Sony Vaio running Windows Vista and have already checked their Flash player.

Someone shared information about a pole jam at a new studio in New York, offering open pole time for $10. They hoped others from the community would join, especially with a competition coming up.

Someone asked for advice on achieving the splits, detailing their current stretching routine which includes lunges, reverse lunges, and using the pole to deepen a middle split. They are unsure if they are making progress and are hoping for suggestions.

The author shared a frustrating experience with a friend who made a dismissive and stereotypical comment about pole dancing after learning they were attending a national competition. The author explained pole dancing is an art form and shared videos as examples.

The author announced the availability of new lap dance lessons, which have been added to the video player. They plan to add lessons daily throughout February.

Someone asked if others could view videos on the site using a Blackberry phone. They were curious about compatibility with the site's video player, similar to YouTube.

Someone was selling a used stainless steel stripper pole for $150. They mentioned local pickup or delivery within a limited distance. The author ultimately sold the pole.

The author is deciding between an Xpole and a Platinum Stages (PS) pole, particularly considering spin quality and customer service experiences. They are interested in feedback on removable pole options.

Someone shared a heartfelt poem about prioritizing time with children and cherishing everyday moments. The author wanted to share something that resonated deeply with them.

Someone shared their excitement about finally achieving a shoulder mount after working towards it. They described the feeling as amazing, though a little strange at first.

Someone shared their excitement about achieving the splits and asked how long to wait before incorporating them into pole work, as well as suggestions for beginner-friendly split moves. They also expressed a long-term goal of performing advanced splits inspired by professional polers.