Discussions

The author is considering a job offer to pole dance and do lap dances at a club, but is hesitant about the full nudity involved. They are seeking others' experiences and opinions on the matter.

The author asked if anyone could break down a complex move seen in a video, a variation of a Gemini leading into an inverted bomb. They were curious about the technique and jokingly requested a tutorial.

A member asked for tips on achieving circular leg movements from the knee while on the floor, referencing a move seen in another instructor’s videos. They were struggling to get the legs to move in a circular motion rather than vertically.

The author is worried their ceiling might collapse after installing a pole, as their stud finder didn’t work as expected and they’ve noticed plaster falling. They are also concerned about the pole slipping due to the grip shifting.

Someone posted looking for a pole dance practice partner in Virginia. They were hoping to connect with someone local to share their hobby with.

Someone is struggling with transitioning from a regular butterfly to an extended butterfly, feeling unstable and like they might fall. They asked for advice on breaking down the move to overcome this block.

The author felt embarrassed to ask, but posted about needing clothes due to financial hardship. They offered to trade some items they have that are too small.

Someone shared a photo and expressed excitement about achieving their first successful teddy for the first time. They noted their surprise at actually holding the pose instead of falling.

A new member introduced themself as a pole and aerial instructor who recently moved to Grimsby, Ontario and will be teaching at a local circus school. They were excited to join the community and acknowledged the site owner.

Someone had an extra amateur and pro competition ticket for a pole dance competition in New York this weekend due to a friend cancelling. They were offering the tickets to anyone who needed them.

The author is preparing for their first pole performance at a house party and is asking for advice on structuring the show. They are concerned about stamina, avoiding repetition, and building a sustainable playlist.

Someone new introduced themselves to the community, sharing they are from Kent, UK. They were simply saying hello and joining the forum.

Someone recently purchased a portable pole and is concerned about installing it in a room with a wooden ceiling. They asked if a wooden ceiling is suitable for a pole and if it poses a safety risk.

A member asked for advice on transitioning from a rockstar spin into a butterfly pose. They were inspired by a demonstration from another member and wanted to learn how to execute the combo.

The author has an older X-Pole with a stripped hex screw on the base plate, making it difficult to disassemble for travel. They are asking for advice on how to remove the stripped screw without causing further damage.

Someone was selling a six-month-old chrome Xpole with extra accessories to help fund the purchase of a stainless steel pole. They were asking $250 and were open to negotiation.

Someone started a thread asking the community to find the oldest pole dance video on YouTube, sharing a 2006 video as their current oldest find. They were curious about early pioneers like Felix.

The author questioned whether X-Pole products sold on eBay are likely to be genuine, given the timeframe since their release. They were specifically considering a potential purchase.

Someone shared a pole dance video they enjoyed and wanted to share with the community. They weren't sure who the performer was, but appreciated the performance.

Someone shared a series of bizarre and unsolicited 'constructive criticism' comments left on a pole dancer's video. The comments included opinions on everything from facial expressions to footwear and preferred moves.

The author, new to the community, is from Barcelona and looking to connect with other pole dancers in the area, as it's not a popular activity there. She's self-teaching after buying a pole.

Someone asked for advice on choosing the right resistance level for therapy bands, specifically for wrist and hand exercises to help with forearm soreness from pole dancing. They were unsure what strength to start with as a beginner.

The author shared their story of moving to Los Angeles after a difficult breakup and discovering a passion for pole dancing. They expressed gratitude for the community and the positive impact it's having on their healing journey.

Someone shared a video article about their pole dance studio that was featured in a college newspaper and on YouTube. They also mentioned potentially securing their own studio space and a belly dance studio expressing interest in offering similar classes.

The author shared their experiences with being recognised in public due to their pole dance content online. They enjoy the positive feedback and are especially happy to hear they’ve inspired others to start pole dancing.