feel bad asking but...

polebunny started this discussion · 2/26/2010

Hey guys I feel embarrassed about this but here is the thing....if any of you have any old clothes you are giving away, like regular not dance clothes, I would gladly take them if u would want to send...clothes are just something we can't afford and haven't for a while...if u have something u are already giving away at least u would know its going to someone who would really appreciate it...I have some stuff thats too small I could trade possibly.....like I said its embarrassing but I don't have any family or friends my size to ask 😳 😳

15 replies

SissyBuns · 2/26/2010
Don't you dare be emabarrassed! What size do you wear? In shoes and clothes. I have a teenage daughter who's outgrowing stuff faster than I can buy it.
minicoopergrl · 2/26/2010
We are one big pole family - were willing to help out a fellow poler in need. What size do you need? If you dont feel comfortable posting, pm us. I have stuff im trying get rid of but havent made it to the thrift store yet.
RoxyPink · 2/26/2010
I'm more than willing to help a pole-sista out!! 😀 You should never be embarassed about asking for help!
polebunny · 2/26/2010
Thanks so much guys...well I have a pair of aero 9/10 jeans that fit but maybe only bc they're stretched out...and a pair of Arizona 15s that also fit but I think they r old from when sizes were smaller. I could prob fit anywhere around 12-13-14 . In tops a medium and shoes 8.5 if u have anything I could give u my email so I could give u my address....when I try to do private mail on here (my phone) it won't work....and thanks again....it just makes me feel so bad as a woman sometimes to have to wear the same 2 or 3 outfits all the time 😳
TigerLily05 · 2/26/2010
No need to be embarrassed! We all travel that road some point in our life. I don't have anything that would fit you, but I would suggest checking out a clothing swap. There are events held in every state, where women bring all kinds of clothes to trade with eachother. Google it for more info!
polebunny · 2/26/2010
Thanks for the tip that sounds interesting! 😳
jvks1mom · 2/26/2010
You can always try Freecycle.com and just find a group in your area
Runemist34 · 2/27/2010
Hey, if I had any spare clothing, I totally would send it! There's so little room in my closet, I have to make sure I've got everything that fits, and nothing that doesn't. And don't feel bad! So few people will ask for help when they really need it, and I think we're all flattered that you would reach out to us. At least, I know I am! 🥂
chemgoddess1 · 2/27/2010
I have been meaning to go through my closet and this is the perfect opportunity for me to do it. You and I look to be of similar size. I would be more than happy to send the clothes to someone I know who really needs them. Wish I would have known about a month ago as I just got rid of stuff I had in bags since last summer. Please PM me through this site.
Vdub · 3/1/2010
Hey guys I feel embarrassed about this but here is the thing....if any of you have any old clothes you are giving away, like regular not dance clothes, I would gladly take them if u would want to send...clothes are just something we can't afford and haven't for a while...if u have something u are already giving away at least u would know its going to someone who would really appreciate it...I have some stuff thats too small I could trade possibly.....like I said its embarrassing but I don't have any family or friends my size to ask 😳 😳 Hey there, what size are you? I have some things I need to get rid of that I can't fit anymore. Let me know.
PoleDanceABCs · 3/2/2010
I have a nice felted green coat perfect for spring and fall? I was actually just about to donate a big bag full of stuff. Just PM me!
Tabbycat · 3/6/2010
hey! I know you said you wear 8.5...but I have a pair of size nine black pole shoes if you want them 🙂 They're not clothes, But they're nice shoes!lol! If you think they'd work, or are interested, send me your address. My feet are a half size bigger since I had a baby, and my toes just hang off the edges now...I loved these shoes once...lol.
polebunny · 3/7/2010
poledanceabc's, thanks so much for the offer, but a coat is actually one thing i have! right before we got married m husband bought me a nice coat that has lasted well. tabby, i would definitely take the shoes if you think they would fit...if they have adjustable straps im sure they would without me having to worry about falling off. i did have one pair of shoes to dance in, but they weren't dance shoes, so i decided to stop bc they are getting beat up and i want to be able to wear them this spring and summer bc they are my only pair of heels. so anyway, just pm me if you think they would work! 😳
Chrissy05 · 3/15/2010
Hey Pole Bunny...girl don't feel bad about asking for a hand. We are a family on this site and just like with any family, we help each other out! I have two big bags of stuff that I was going to donate to Disablied American Vets and can go thru those to find some items to give to u. I actually wear a size 12 too and 8.5 in shoes so should be a good fit. What are some things you need? Guessing since the weather is going to start getting warmer u'd want more springy/summer clothes. Email me ur address! So we can get the ball rolling 🥂
Feather · 3/16/2010
What size do you wear? I'd be happy to send some clothes your way.