Discussions

The author was trying to decide between two similar pairs of boots, noting a price difference and different model numbers. They were also concerned about potential scratching of a pole from the boots' hardware.

The author is concerned about how a hysterectomy, needed for a large fibroid, will affect her pole dancing, particularly inverted moves. She is seeking experiences from other polers who have had the surgery.

Someone was struggling to remember the name of a slow, sad R&B or jazz song with lyrics about being a woman. They hoped the community could help identify it based on a very vague description.

Someone is having trouble with foot grip during pole work, specifically with moves like Cupid and Starfish when barefoot. They are looking for suggestions for tape or other methods to increase friction, as they find they slide down the pole.

Someone asked how to change the email address associated with their account on the forum. They were looking for instructions on how to do so.

Someone announced a master class with a well-known instructor in Detroit on October 10th, with a showcase and pole jam planned around it. They shared details about pricing and availability.

A new member introduced themself from Zurich, Switzerland, sharing that they've been pole dancing for a year and recently got a home pole. They are excited to train more and learn from the community.

Someone asked about hotel arrangements for the upcoming regional competition. They were unsure where people were staying and if anyone needed a roommate.

The author shared their unconventional start to pole dancing – using a basement support jack for practice. They detailed their fitness journey and accidental discovery of the pole world, and shared their background in bellydance.

A new member introduced themself, sharing they are from England and have been pole dancing for about a month. They were excited to join the community.

The author asked whether sensual dancing can be taught or must come naturally, and questioned if studios should prioritize sensuality or allow for individual expression. They also wondered how to handle feeling pressured to be sensual during classes.

A new member introduced themself, sharing their pole journey which began two years ago and has recently become more serious. They expressed excitement about joining the community and finding inspiration.

Someone asked for advice on attempting a death lay, specifically how to maintain the position and the best way to enter and exit the move. They are practicing with a crash mat.

The author expressed their enjoyment of the forum and admitted to spending a lot of time there, appreciating the welcoming atmosphere. They shared their feeling of being 'addicted' to the community.

Someone is having trouble removing their X-Pole from the base, as the joint seems to have turned and become stuck. They are concerned about the pole’s stability and potential for injury if they try to use it in its current state.

Someone was having trouble holding an inverted crucifix, specifically experiencing unwanted spinning. They asked for help understanding why they were rotating and how to maintain the position for longer.

The author encountered a comment online dismissing spinning poles as 'cheating' and wanted to discuss whether this was a valid viewpoint. They believe spinning poles require just as much strength and skill as static poles.

The author is looking for online retailers that ship Pleaser shoes to Canada, as prices and selection are better online but shipping is expensive or slow. They shared their initial positive experience with buying their first pair.

Someone described a pole move where they hang with arched back, arms overhead, and legs wrapped around the pole. They asked if the move had a name.

Someone is selling a few dance DVDs, including lyrical jazz and instructional material from Sheila Kelley. They specified prices, shipping costs, and payment methods.

Someone is asking for help with achieving the correct body positioning for the butterfly pose, specifically how to keep their torso aligned with the pole. They asked how to straighten their torso.

The author questioned whether their student-to-pole ratio of 5:6 was safe, as they'd read that 1:1 is preferable. They described a teaching style with individual spotting and correction during class.

The author discovered their ceiling height is slightly too large for their new pole, resulting in the adjuster rod extending beyond the recommended limit by one inch. They were concerned about potential damage and the cost of an extension.

Someone shared a video of incredibly skilled Mallakhamb performers, a traditional Indian gymnastic practice using a pole. They wondered if pole dancers could adapt some of the moves.

Someone asked about grip aids, sharing they were looking for recommendations on brands. They also mentioned needing help with inner thigh grip.