helloo, So I am just wondering if there is any ladies out there who have had a hysterectomy (uterus removal) surgery and how that has affected your ability to pole and for how long afterwards, <snip>
I am worried of alot of things but would like to hear any stories or experiences any women have had who has had the surgery after they have already started poling... thank you so much gals for reading this, any input would be soo greatly appreciated, for im a little freaked out and all... Jess π
The idea of major surgery and the implications of a hysterectomy are understandably scary, and your first worry should be your health. My experience was that I felt a whole lot better after the thing was gone!!! It was weird, all these women were telling me I wouldn't be less of a woman (for losing my uterus) ... and that thought had never occurred to me! If it wasn't going to give me more babies (and I only had one) then I was glad to be rid of it! That was over 25 years ago, and I only started poling last year.
Most important, listen to your body (oh, and your surgeon too!). You will need to take it easy for the first few weeks, so you will lose some strength in all your muscles, and you'll need to build back up. You're not going to lose all your strength, but it will take you at least as much time to recover as the time you have taken off. But you'll probably be back to where you were in 3-4 months time, and that's not so bad, is it?
Be careful with your abs because you don't want a tear that will keep you out even longer; you might want to consult a trainer or request physical therapy.
You may lose some sensation along the incision, and the internal scar area will feel weird. Massage can help soften the scar so it's not so tight feeling. It will take some time to recognize what is just tightness from the scar, and what is a strain to the incision, so go carefully. My hysterectomy came 7 months after a C-section, for which I was given an anchor incision, not only across the bikini line, but also from the navel down to bikini line (the pregnancy was complicated by multiple fibroids). And I'd had a previous bikini-line surgery before the pregnancy.
You are going to feel soooo much better afterward! so just be patient with yourself. Start dancing around the pole as soon as you feel up to it, and consider it an advantage to improve your dancing! also start flexibility exercises when you are able. Your physician might permit you to do some non-pole strengthening exercises before (s)he allows you on the pole. You won't have to start over completely, you'll recover to the point you were before the surgery, and then you'll be better than ever.
Keep us posted on how you're doing!