Discussions

The author expressed frustration with negativity within the pole community, specifically criticism of dancers who embrace a sexier style. They felt it was counterproductive to the goal of destigmatizing pole dancing.

The author is feeling overwhelmed trying to balance work, school, a relationship, and pole dancing. They are looking for advice on how others manage their time when they have many commitments.

The author announced a new Events section on the forum and asked members if they host or plan pole-related events. They encouraged people to use the free section to advertise their events to a wider audience.

Someone shared information about a pole dance workshop with Stephanie Skyy, detailing the time, location, and a bit about the instructor’s background. The workshop focuses on basic inverts and progressions and costs $40.

Someone is finding the recent forum changes difficult to navigate and is asking how to find unread posts. They are experiencing visual strain while trying to use the new format.

The author is considering teaching pole dance privately or offering pole parties, and eventually opening a studio. They are seeking advice on certification requirements, pricing for parties, and ideas for making parties fun.

Someone is looking for healthy snack and food ideas to support a lifestyle change, particularly options to have on hand when family members are eating fast food. They are not a cook and are looking for easy options.

Someone is wondering if they should train floor moves, like shoulder rolls, on both sides of their body. They are currently struggling with one side and questioning if it's necessary to force it.

The author is feeling self-conscious about recently developed fat around their back and hips, often called 'love handles'. They're frustrated because cardio isn't targeting this area and others don't seem to understand their concerns.

The author asked whether other polers could perform transitions like the TG handspring and lift on both sides, noting they struggle with some moves being easier on one side. They were curious about others' experiences with side preference.

A new member from Canada introduced themselves, sharing their recent start to pole dance in 2009 and excitement about joining the community. They used the Canadian expression 'eh' in their greeting.

Someone posted to celebrate the anniversary of the site owners and webmaster, expressing gratitude for their work. They simply wanted to share their appreciation for the community.

Someone is asking for advice on achieving the splits, noting a dance background but current inflexibility. They are newly motivated to work on flexibility due to starting pole dancing and making a new year's resolution.

The author is a new pole dancer worried about balancing their practice with starting a full-time paralegal program. They fear losing progress due to time constraints and the risk of injury from infrequent training.

Someone is asking about how to perform a circular movement while inverted on the pole. They are wondering about the best grip type and whether it's done on static or spinning poles.

Someone is creating a video about pole dance and wants to include a collection of words that capture the essence of the activity. They are hoping to challenge negative perceptions and show what pole means to those who practice it.

Someone asked about the differences between split grip and twisted grip, noting twisted grip felt uncomfortable. They wondered if moves typically done in twisted grip could be done with a split grip.

The author is seeking advice on achieving a jackknife, specifically wondering if attempting it from an extended butterfly or Aysha would be helpful. They are aiming to learn the move before the new year.

Someone shared a YouTube dancer they enjoy watching, praising her sensual yet grounded style and the joy she seems to find in dancing. The author hoped others would enjoy the channel as well.

Someone asked for help identifying and learning a pole move seen in a video. They were concerned about potential injury and asked for advice on how to perform it safely.

Someone asked for advice on what to do with their hands when not gripping the pole, as they tend to look awkward or overly posed. They are seeking ways to appear more natural during their routines.

Someone asked for a list of the moves taught in levels 3 through 5 of a pole dance program. They were hoping to find a comprehensive overview of the curriculum.

Someone shared a video of a doubles pole performance they found on social media. They wanted to share the inspiring and beautiful routine with the group.

Someone is planning a move to Washington DC and was hoping to connect with other pole dancers in the area to find practice partners. They are relocating from Ohio and anticipate arriving early next year.

A member shared their difficulty with the yogini pole move, suspecting their short torso and height contribute to painful bruising. They've had technique checks and are still struggling.