Discussions

Someone asked for feedback on Pole Danzer poles, specifically stainless steel, for a bar with a high ceiling (15-16'). They were looking for a permanent, floor-to-ceiling option as X-Poles might not reach.

The author is seeking advice on helping her boyfriend learn pole dancing, as he feels some moves are impossible or not for men. She asked male pole dancers about challenges, pain, and necessary equipment.

Someone shared a link to a sports bra they found on a clothing website while shopping for skirts. They thought the bra was cute and wanted to share it with others.

Someone is visiting London and is looking for a pole dance studio that allows drop-in classes for visitors. They enjoy trying out different studios while travelling.

Someone wished a friend a happy birthday and expressed their excitement to see them soon. The post was a simple birthday shout-out to a fellow pole dancer.

The author shared their experience returning to pole after a break, noting lost strength and issues with new gloves being too grippy. They were able to do some moves but struggled with transitions and grip.

The author noticed a pattern of increased strength and ease with pole moves after time off work, followed by rapid fatigue during shifts. They wondered if this is normal given their frequent pole work and asked about dietary adjustments to combat the fatigue.

A new pole dancer asked for advice on choosing a pole, specifically regarding brand, metal type, and diameter. They were concerned about the cost of higher-end poles as a student.

Someone was inquiring about whether a specific online shop ships to Australia and also asked about the quality of their crash mats. They were having trouble selecting a country on the mobile site.

Someone is visiting Detroit in August and is looking for a pole studio offering advanced classes, private lessons, or open practice. They have four years of pole experience and are also interested in silks.

The author asked for recommendations on where to find pole competition outfits that are a bit more unique than those offered by popular brands. They were hoping for something professional-looking without being overly extravagant.

The author was curious about the range of rates for private pole lessons, noting prices from $100 to $250. They specifically asked if anyone had seen rates higher than $250.

Someone shared a news story and a negative comment they received on social media, expressing frustration at being called a derogatory name. They were seeking support from the community.

The author is deciding between different pole finishes and diameters for a second pole, having noticed a performance difference moving from 50mm to 45mm. They are seeking experiences with chrome, titanium gold, brass, and smaller diameters like 40mm and 38mm.

Someone shared a video of a one-armed pole dancer who recently won a world title, expressing admiration for her skill and dedication. They wanted to share this inspirational performance with the community.

The author shared a link to a Facebook discussion about the possibility of pole dancing being included in the Olympics. They wanted to know what others thought about the public’s reaction to the idea.

Someone asked about the platform this website runs on, as a friend wants to create a similar, smaller online space for a private group. They were hoping to find out what software was used to build it.

A new member shared their excitement about getting a pole and asked for advice on getting started. They inquired about safety precautions, pole maintenance, and beginner-friendly moves.

Someone shared a video of a performer using a German Wheel. They wanted to share something they found impressive and inspiring.

Someone started a thread asking about other people's pole dance goals for August, and shared their own: an extended butterfly, a consistent shouldermount, and a caterpillar Aysha. They aim to set a manageable number of goals each month to stay motivated.

Someone asked how often they should be stretching to achieve the splits, sharing their frustration with a lack of progress after six weeks of training. They described intense pain during stretches and wondered if they should be stretching more frequently.

The author is experiencing increasing elbow pain that started with a new job involving heavy lifting and has kept them off the pole for three weeks. They are looking for suggestions to reduce the pain and potentially helpful exercises.

The author recently purchased pole shoes and found them too wide across the toes, asking if others with narrow feet have had similar experiences and if anyone recommends specific brands. They were hoping for suggestions for shoes that fit narrower feet.

The author is new to pole dancing and shared their excitement after discovering tutorials and being inspired by a YouTube video. They were previously unfamiliar with the artistry and athleticism involved in the discipline.

Someone in British Columbia is hoping to try an X Stage Lite pole before buying one. They are specifically looking for someone on Vancouver Island who has one they might be able to test out.