Discussions

Someone new to New York City is looking to connect with other pole dancers. They are hoping to find pole jams, events, or affordable studios in the area, as they are starting grad school at NYU.

Someone is asking for advice on organising a pole dance workshop with friends, as local studios won't host. They are unsure about the financial and logistical aspects of booking an instructor independently.

Someone shared a photo of a new top they purchased from a pole wear company. The top has a playful message about being able to do a particular pole move.

Someone asked for help understanding how to perform a pole move where you flip from an Eros position. They described the move as swinging a leg upwards to flip right-side up and referred to it as an 'Eros flip'.

Someone is seeking advice on choosing a pole, specifically concerned about potential ceiling damage and the reliability of newer Xpole models. They are weighing the pros and cons of pressure-mounted versus permanent installation.

The author invited others to connect with them on a social media platform. They were hoping to build a network of pole dancers in their feed.

Someone was curious if anyone had experienced their load-bearing pole coming loose at the top. They were new to the community and had also asked the question on a blog.

Someone recently purchased a chrome pole and found it to be very slippery, especially compared to poles used in classes. They asked about cleaning methods and grip aids to improve their grip.

Someone asked if anyone had resources for transitioning from a forward to a reverse showgirl, as they learn best by watching. They were finding the move awkward and hoped for a video demonstration.

Someone is concerned about the possibility of their ceiling being damaged by an X-Pole. They are asking if anyone has experienced cracking in their ceiling due to pole use.

A member is experiencing frequent logouts on a Mac computer with Safari, despite having the 'stay logged in' box checked. They recently cleared cookies and are seeking a solution to this issue.

The author asked for tips from those certified by ACE while starting their training, finding the material dense. They shared their background as a nurse and acknowledged the volume of information.

This person is looking for a pole buddy in a small town in Florida, as they don't have access to local studios and are finding it difficult to progress alone. They've been poling for four months and want someone to share their passion with.

Someone is selling two gently used, studio-quality poles for $300 each in the Ottawa/Gatineau area. They clarified the poles are a build-a-pole style.

Someone recently received a Pole Aria as a gift and is looking for ideas on how to use it beyond dancing, specifically for stretching and conditioning. They are unsure how to best utilise the two silks for these purposes.

Someone is struggling with maintaining grip on a spinning pole, particularly when transitioning between moves. They noticed a difference in how they can adjust their grip compared to static pole.

The author is preparing for their first pole performance at a Mardi Gras fundraiser and is feeling anxious. They are concerned about stamina, improvising to unknown music, physical limitations due to injury and a small stage, and managing sweat.

The author shared photos of their husband's recent surgery to repair a torn rotator cuff, which had been damaged over time due to lack of proper healing. They emphasized the importance of listening to advice on shoulder stabilization.

Someone asked if anyone had experience with Lupit Poles, noting the unusual installation method without screws and a single long main piece. They were curious about others' opinions since they hadn't been able to try one.

Someone shared a link to an online anatomy game, describing it as a fun way to learn body parts. They thought the community might find it useful.

Someone asked the community where people in the UK buy their pole dance clothes and shoes, as shipping costs from international retailers can be high. They were hoping to find UK-based stores with more affordable options.

Someone was selling a lightly used X-pole 40mm chrome pole for 280, located in the San Antonio, Texas area. They were hoping to find a good home for it and were open to negotiation.

The author is a pole dancer in the Willits, California area and was wondering if any other members are nearby, feeling isolated in Northern California. They were hoping to connect with local polers.

The author asked about differing opinions on using grip aids in pole dancing, as a friend suggested it's frowned upon at her studio. They use grip to feel secure in a humid climate.

Someone asked about the process and cost of legally changing their name for stage purposes. They were hoping it would offer some privacy.