Discussions

A new member shared that they recently moved to the Seattle area from California and is looking to get back into pole after a break. They are seeking studio recommendations, as options seem limited.

Someone is asking for ideas on how to hang sheets on unfinished garage walls for decoration. They’ve seen lighting suggestions but haven’t found anything specific to their situation.

A member proposed a mentorship program pairing experienced polers with newcomers for support and motivation. They asked if the community thought it was a good idea.

Someone recently won a 30-day scholarship and was asking about any time restrictions on when the code needs to be used. They just wanted to clarify the terms of the scholarship.

The author shared a frustrating experience where a competition entry was unexpectedly cancelled due to a change in venue policy, which they believe was influenced by someone they know. They suspect sabotage.

A member was struggling with the Titanic pole move, specifically with the pole slipping from between their thighs when leaning back. They asked for tips on achieving a secure grip.

Someone is planning to purchase a specific brand of pole but is concerned about the height of their ceilings. They are wondering if the pole can be adjusted to fit their space.

Someone is competing tomorrow night but discovered the pole is brass instead of chrome, and they are seeking advice as they previously disliked dancing on brass. They are worried about how the change will affect their performance.

Someone is having trouble disassembling their older style x pole, specifically getting the threaded sections unscrewed. They've tried WD40 but it hasn't worked and are looking for solutions before support is available.

Someone's pole is creaking and they are unsure how to properly tighten it, as their partner usually handles setup. They are worried about overtightening and need help before they move in a few weeks.

Someone noticed the chat feature seems to have disappeared and asked if others were experiencing the same thing. They were wondering if it was still available.

The author is concerned they may have sleep apnea based on symptoms like snoring and morning headaches. They are hesitant to seek a diagnosis due to the possibility of needing a CPAP machine.

Someone was having trouble achieving a butterfly position and asked for advice on what they might be doing wrong. They felt insecure in their top hand and wondered if it was a strength or mental block issue.

The author questioned the presence of sex toy vendors at pole competitions, wondering if it undermined efforts to establish pole as a respected fitness and art form. They acknowledged the adult entertainment industry's connection to pole but hoped for greater separation.

Someone is selling a nearly new chrome Xpole, including all original parts and instructions. They are selling because of health reasons and lack of space.

The author started a discussion asking for opinions on stage poles, specifically comparing features of different brands like PS Star Stand Alone and X Stage. They were interested in portability, spin quality, and overall improvements.

The author is struggling with consistent motivation for pole dancing, finding it easier to get excited when there's external pressure or a specific event. They are looking for ways to maintain enthusiasm for personal goals without falling into cycles of motivation and burnout.

Someone is considering starting a blog to document their pole journey and wondered if others do this, specifically mentioning using Tumblr. They were hoping for thoughts and opinions on the idea.

The author is sharing their journey with pole, starting with joining the community in 2011 and now beginning a 30-day challenge. They expressed initial excitement and a desire to learn more about pole dancing.

A member started a thread to share their YouTube channels with others in the community. They shared links to their personal and family-friendly channels and asked people to subscribe.

The author is experiencing upper back pain when doing inverted Vs, and suspects it's related to technique or muscle imbalances. They shared a video seeking feedback on their form, noting a tendency to lean to one side.

A pole dancer with 8 years of experience is seeking tips to improve their Aysha, feeling consistently weak in the move despite understanding the technique. They shared a video for feedback.

Someone is compiling a directory of pole and aerial studios across the USA and asked for contributions of studio names, states, and website addresses. They shared a link to an existing directory as a starting point.

Someone is having trouble uploading a profile picture from their iPad, as the option to choose a file isn’t working. They are asking for help troubleshooting the issue.

Someone is attending the opening of a new pole studio and is asking for advice on what to wear to the associated mixer. They are unsure whether to dress casually or be prepared to pole.