Discussions

The author shared a funny story about struggling with an inverted crucifix because they hadn't shaved their legs in a few days. They were frustrated until realizing the lack of grip was due to leg hair!

The author is considering purchasing a pole and asked for stories from other members about their experiences with pole dancing. They were curious about how others got started, how they funded their poles, and the pros and cons of the activity.

The author shared their excitement about successfully learning new pole moves thanks to lessons from an instructor. They praised the lessons for being clear, simple, and effective, and asked others about their experiences.

Someone asked about which arm should be used to hold the pole during a superman, wondering if it should be the dominant one. They were finding their dominant arm was supporting them before the flip.

The author asked how long it takes for the pain of pole dancing to subside, noting it’s currently very painful even for basic moves. They were curious about others’ experiences with skin getting used to the pole.

The author is transitioning from static pole to spinning pole and is finding it difficult to control the movement. They are asking for advice on how to adjust their technique and gain more control when spinning.

The author asked about hair removal methods for pole dancing, specifically seeking tips on waxing. They were curious about what others do to maintain grooming in that area.

Someone is asking for advice on achieving an inverted split, specifically struggling with holding the position without using their hands. They are looking for tips and ideally a video demonstration.

Someone shared a video of a Dutch pole dancer performing impressive moves on two poles. They were struck by the dancer’s talent and the catchy music, and wanted to share it with the community.

The author shared their struggle with feeling unmotivated to pole after a teacher suggested daily practice. They are considering moving the pole to their bedroom to make it more accessible and overcome their current lack of motivation.

Someone described a persistent knot-like pain in their inner thigh that prevents them from stretching fully. They asked if others have experienced something similar and what they could do to address it.

The author is a new member excited to start pole dancing and is seeking advice on which pole to purchase for their basement 'bat cave'. They have some prior dance and pole experience and are willing to invest in a quality pole.

Someone shared their excitement about teaching their young sons to invert on a pole. They mentioned the boys enjoyed it and are planning to create a 'how-to' video.

The author was upset about a newspaper article on pole dancing that misrepresented the activity. They were frustrated by the generic title, the use of their personal information, the lack of provided photos, and the focus on negative opinions.

A member initiated a March challenge to create a pole dance routine to Irish music for St. Patrick's Day. The author shared videos of their own performance.

A new member shared that they are joining the community, having recently moved to Oahu from Texas. They have a background in dance, but are new to pole dancing.

The author asked where to find a visual reference for pole dance moves, as they struggle to identify them by name. They acknowledged being new to understanding the terminology.

Someone shared their experience trying the knee hold for the first time, describing it as intensely painful due to pressure on the bone. They asked if the pain lessens with practice.

The author shared a breakthrough in their pole journey, successfully achieving a hip hold after practicing it following a scorpio/gem switch. They also managed a hands-free knee swing and are now working towards a marley.

A member proposed a regular Skype pole jam and shared a time for an initial session. The discussion expanded to include scheduling, technical considerations, and support for each other's progress.

The author asked for instructional videos on a specific type of 'booty shake' often seen in clubs, describing the movement as a shake while bending over. They were curious how to achieve the look.

The author is celebrating finally achieving the crucifix position. They shared how a friend and observing others’ technique helped them correct their form and make the move much easier.

The author shared their negative experience with a pole purchased believing it was a Carmen Electra branded pole, but discovering it was actually a Peekaboo pole. They detailed issues with the pole's construction and stability, particularly with the ceiling fixture and base.

The author is experiencing painful friction and bruising on their inner thighs when performing a specific pole move involving sliding and inverting. They asked about remedies like arnica gel and techniques to prevent skin damage.

The author recently purchased a beginner pole and DVD and found spinning much harder than expected, asking for advice on building strength and learning to spin. They felt discouraged by the initial difficulty.