Discussions

Someone is considering a move to Hong Kong with their partner for work and is feeling anxious about it, especially being far from family. They asked if anyone has experience with moving to Hong Kong.

A new member introduced themself to the community, sharing their pole journey and excitement about getting a home pole. They expressed how pole dancing has boosted their confidence and strength.

Someone is experiencing an issue with their pole where the base is locked to the bearing flange, making it harder to transport. They are asking if others have encountered this and how they resolved it.

A new member announced their arrival to the forum, sharing that they recently turned eighteen and have been pole dancing for a year and a half. They are excited to participate fully and plan to try new classes.

A new member introduced themself to the community, mentioning they are from Washington, DC. They expressed excitement about joining and acknowledged taking a while to participate.

The author announced an April challenge: dancing to unusual or difficult music. They encouraged members to choose bizarre, cheesy, or challenging songs for their routines.

Someone is having trouble grabbing their leg during a specific pole move. They are able to grab one leg easily, but struggle with the other and are asking for advice on warm-ups or techniques.

The author is planning to revamp their fitness routine to overcome a plateau and wants to incorporate focused strength training to improve their pole dancing. They are seeking advice on gym-based workouts or guidance for a trainer who understands the specific strength demands of pole.

The author is struggling with grip, experiencing blisters and slipping despite cleaning the pole and using a grip aid. They also asked for recommendations for comfortable activewear, particularly for those with a curvier shape.

Someone is offering to host a pole jam at their home in Norway during the week of June 7th-13th, providing free accommodation. They are hoping to connect with other polers to attend and are planning to purchase another pole.

The author asked for recommendations on where to buy an X-Pole after learning their local studio stopped selling them. The discussion quickly became about finding reliable sources and verifying authenticity.

The author is new to the community and shared her story of discovering pole dancing after a long history with other sports. She recently attended a workshop with a well-known instructor and is excited to set up a home pole.

The author shared that they recently received abnormal thyroid function test results after struggling with weight gain, fatigue, and other symptoms for a year. They were hoping a thyroid issue could explain their difficulties.

A new member introduced herself, sharing that she recently started pole dancing and is excited to learn. She is located in Florida and asked about other members in the area.

Someone found a used XPOLE for sale on a classifieds website and is wondering if it's a good idea to purchase it, given the distance to inspect it and the seller's limited knowledge. They are weighing the risk against the lower price.

Someone shared a fun discovery: a way to make wiping down the pole look intentionally sensual during a performance. They described stripping a shirt off in a way that created a teasing, playful moment.

Someone was looking to buy a used 45mm X-Pole to help with grip strength and technique. They are located in Canada and were mindful of shipping costs.

The author shared a frustrating experience at a pub with a pole, where a group of men repeatedly made rude 'mooing' sounds while she was dancing. She described continuing to perform, even doing a difficult move, and blowing them kisses.

Members discussed an upcoming pole jam at Aradia Fitness in Brampton on April 11th, sharing details about location, parking, and a plan for regular monthly jams. The author also shared plans for a summer pole jam pool party.

Someone asked if there was interest in more instructional videos focused on floor work, similar to previous lap dance videos. They felt more detailed instruction would be helpful.

A member shared their frustration with sweaty hands during longer pole routines, making it difficult to grip and perform tricks. They asked for tips on managing sweat and maintaining grip throughout a song.

The author proposed a February challenge: create a pole dance routine to a favorite "bedroom" song, with optional striptease elements. They emphasized having fun and reminded participants to avoid nudity.

The author shared a performance video from the 2010 Australia competition, noting its emotional impact. They also asked if anyone had a link to a specific winning performance featuring handcuffs.

A new member introduced themself and shared that they are saving up to buy an xpole to add to their fitness routine. They were simply saying hello to the community.

The author recently ordered a pole and is asking for advice on getting started. They have questions about footwear, instructional resources, clothing, and how to approach introducing pole to their children.