Discussions

Someone is offering a pair of royal blue pole shorts and a black velvet halter top to other members. They are willing to trade or give the items away in exchange for shipping costs.

The author excitedly shared finally achieving the crucifex pose, a move they had been struggling with. They were surprised by how suddenly it clicked after a lot of effort.

The author asked for recommendations for HD cameras to record pole dance videos, specifying a desire for good video quality. They were looking for models and opinions on pros and cons.

The author is new to pole dancing, having practiced for two months, and shared a heartwarming story about their mother's positive reaction to their hobby. They are excited to connect with the community and are hoping to take online lessons.

Someone shared news about a pole dancer being interviewed on television. The author was proud of the dancer and wanted to share the interview with the community.

The author is experiencing painful callouses and discomfort after switching to a 45mm titanium grip pole. They are wondering if the pain is due to the pole’s finish, the diameter, or a combination of both.

A member shared a long list of ideas for pole dance challenges, ranging from themed dances (Halloween, Christmas) to skill-based ones (no climbing) and silly concepts (dancing in pajamas). They asked for further suggestions from the community.

The author described a recurring pilonidal cyst and their anxiety around seeking treatment, especially due to a past panic attack during anesthesia and lack of insurance. They were looking for advice from others who have experienced this condition.

Someone asked about how long it typically takes to feel confident in a pole trick, noting they struggle with remembering moves after switching between them. They wondered if this experience was common.

Someone shared a website with royalty-free music to help with the issue of music being removed from videos on platforms like Youtube. They invited others to share their favourite sources of free music.

Someone shared an article about the importance of emotion and passion in pole dancing. They wanted to share a piece they found interesting with the community.

A new member is introducing themself and sharing their excitement about starting pole dancing after receiving a home pole as a gift. They are inspired by professional pole dancers and enjoying learning new moves.

Someone new to the forum introduced themself, sharing they are a pole dancer from Northern California and looking to connect with others. They've been dancing for almost a year and are hoping to find advice and friendship.

Someone new to the community shared that they recently started beginner lessons and immediately purchased a pole after watching instructional videos. They noted the physical challenge of starting pole dancing.

Someone new to pole dance from Mexico reached out to see if anyone else on the forum speaks Spanish or is also from Mexico. They mentioned being a beginner and apologising for their English.

Someone is selling a Platinum Stages pole, purchased a couple of years ago, that has barely been used. They are asking $250 or best offer and are located in the Bay Area.

The author is concerned about the indentation their pole is leaving in their new carpet, and whether it will disappear if the pole is moved. They are also wondering if they should have considered a different flooring option for the pole's location.

A member shared a breakdown of a Shoulder Mount flip to Chopper combination, detailing the necessary skills and steps involved. They provided a link to a video demonstrating the move.

Someone new to pole is taking lessons from a particular instructor and is looking for a pre-made beginner routine to practice with. They aren't quite ready to choreograph their own yet.

Someone is asking for help with the gracefulness of their inverts, noting a jerky motion when getting their leg onto the pole. They wonder if it's a strength issue or a technique problem, and whether to focus on leg height or body positioning.

Someone asked for advice on safely mounting their pole, as they were unsure of the location of their ceiling joists. They shared a photo of their ceiling and asked for opinions on the best placement for their pole.

Someone posted a photo from a pole art series and asked for the name of the move featured, as they weren't sure if it was a variation of a butterfly. They were hoping for a name beyond just describing the grip.

A new member introduced themself from Virginia and expressed excitement about joining the community. They were hoping to connect with other polers worldwide.

The author wondered if 'pole go go dancing' – performing pole tricks in nightclubs to electronic music – exists as a job. They were inspired by go go dancers and missed the club music scene.

Someone suggested creating a new forum category for 'pole surfing', inspired by the travel-sharing concept of 'couch surfing'. The idea is to connect people who are travelling with those who can offer a place to stay and share pole dancing.