Discussions

The author initiated a discussion comparing and contrasting pole dance competitions and showcases, sharing their experience producing showcases and noting the competitive spirit even within those events. They believe both formats are valuable.

Someone wondered if pole dance could, over time, become a classic art form like ballet. They were inspired by watching skilled pole dancers and posed this as a thought experiment.

Someone is writing an article about women's self-perception and is asking for resources. They are looking for research data and personal stories about overcoming negative body image.

An instructor was seeking advice for a private student who was experiencing significant fear and a lack of trust preventing her from attempting basic spins, despite having the physical strength. The student was frustrated with her lack of progress.

Someone asked which of two Shiva Rea yoga DVDs, Fluid Power or Power Flow Yoga, is better for someone new to her teachings. They were hoping for recommendations before making a purchase.

Someone was trying to recall and execute a floor-to-pole move involving a 'plow' and hooking an outside leg on the pole to climb up. They were seeking help identifying the move and troubleshooting their attempt.

Someone is planning a waitress-themed pole dance and wants to carry a tray with drinks. They are asking about ways to securely attach drinks to the tray during spins, considering magnets or other methods.

The author shared a vivid dream about experiencing severe pole burns, sparking a discussion about scary pole-related dreams. Several members related their own unsettling dream experiences.

A member is struggling with the reverse grab, feeling stuck after the initial kick and unable to maintain momentum. They've tried adjusting their body position and flexibility but are still having trouble.

The author is planning to sell their current pole to fund a new titanium X-Pole, hoping to resolve grip issues with sweaty hands. They are also considering how the new pole might work for their beginner pole dancing sister.

The author shared that they applied for the UK Pole Art competition in the intermediate category and are feeling nervous, particularly about the dance aspect and stamina required. They plan to document their training process and asked for feedback.

The author noticed a negative comment dismissing IPDFA as a competition and questioned whether there was a legitimate reason for the criticism. They wondered if there was something about the competition itself that others were aware of.

The author is experiencing pain and bruising when attempting an aerial shoulder mount, despite being able to perform it successfully on the ground. They are seeking suggestions to correct their form and avoid rolling onto a bone.

The author announced a May challenge focused on footwork, inspired by a video and previous challenges. Participants were asked to create a video showing only their lower body while expressing the music and emotion.

The author is new to pole dancing and is feeling a little self-conscious about their strength. They are learning at home due to a lack of local studios and are curious about how others progress so quickly.

The author is thrilled to be receiving an X-Stage Lite pole as a Mother's Day gift from her husband, and is grateful for help arranging shipping. She shared her excitement about starting to pole on it and her family’s supportive reaction.

The author shared their experience trying a meal replacement shake, noting the chocolate flavor was too dark for their liking. They were curious about other people’s experiences with the product.

The author expressed intense frustration about being forced to interact with a family member they dislike. They felt hypocritical for being polite after a period of no contact and resented being put in the situation.

Someone asked whether it's better to shave legs on pole days or rest days, wondering if it affects grip. They were curious about timing in relation to their pole practice.

The author shared struggles with anxiety, despite appearing happy to others, and worries about future events like her aging dog. She's seeking ways to focus on the present and cope without relying solely on medication.

Someone is selling pole dance DVDs, including titles by Nicole Williams and Dr. Amy, as well as other workout DVDs on a separate online store. They have listed prices and are asking for buyers to cover shipping costs.

Someone shared that they were interviewed for a popular online pole dance publication. They were excited about the feature and thanked the person who posted it.

The author is looking for advice on incorporating yoga into their daily routine at home, as they can no longer afford classes. They are struggling to find the time and create a consistent practice.

Someone was unsure how to switch from a monthly to an annual subscription. They asked if cancelling the monthly subscription and then purchasing the annual one was the correct method.

Someone shared photos from a recent pole jam event. They invited others to enjoy looking at the pictures.