Discussions

The author is dealing with an overprotective boyfriend who wrongly assumes pole dancing is inherently sexual and doesn't want her to perform or post videos. She's seeking advice on how to navigate this issue and whether it's a dealbreaker.

The author, a beginner pole dancer, asked if studio training is essential for progressing to intermediate/advanced levels, as they aren't seeing results and are considering learning from videos. They are also concerned about the financial implications of studio classes.

A member noticed their bust size decreased after starting pole dancing, expressing surprise at losing a cup size while enjoying their increased strength. They wondered if this change was normal.

Someone shared their excitement about ordering Mighty Grip gloves with tack, hoping they will help build upper body strength. They asked if anyone else uses them and what their experiences have been.

Someone shared that they have started an online shop selling handmade knitted and crocheted items. They are a long-time member of the community and are hoping for support as they build their business.

A member's X-Pole became stuck after overtightening the X-joint, and they were worried about the cost of a replacement. They initially sought advice on how to loosen the joint.

The author is a new pole dancer who felt discouraged after two beginner classes where they were left behind and told they weren't in shape or advanced enough. They are considering buying a pole to practice at home and asked if something was wrong with them.

Someone is planning to train in Sydney, NSW for four to five months starting in October and is looking for accommodation. They are a pole instructor and offered to share tips in exchange, and ideally would like a place with a pole.

Someone suggested a new challenge for the community: pole dancing blindfolded. They checked previous challenges to ensure it hadn't been done before and shared their experience trying it out.

Someone contacted a pole manufacturer to inquire about the availability of brass poles in the US. They shared that the manufacturer confirmed plans to stock the 40mm brass 'Xpert' model, though a delivery date isn't known yet.

The author is concerned their pole fitness photos online might negatively impact a job application for a daycare position. They asked if they should remove the pictures.

The author is updating a pole studio's website and asked the community what information potential students would find helpful. They already have basics like FAQs, class descriptions and a schedule in place.

The author expressed missing a favourite pole dance blog and asked the community for recommendations of others to follow. They mentioned enjoying Aerial Amy and Pole Dance Adventures.

The author is a returning student who has been poling on and off for years, and is unsure which level class to join at a new studio after an injury and studio closure. They are concerned about being too advanced for beginner classes but not ready for intermediate.

Someone asked about setting up an Xpole Xpert on concrete flooring and whether screwing it down was necessary, especially with plans to take it down and re-install it weekly. They were hoping to avoid altering the floor.

Someone recently placed an order for a pole and is inquiring about receiving a confirmation and tracking number. They want to be home to receive the delivery.

The author is a beginner and is asking for clarification on how to structure their at-home pole lessons. They are unsure how many exercises to do in a session and how to progress through the beginner videos.

The author asked if anyone has found supplements to help improve flexibility, specifically for achieving the middle splits, despite consistent stretching. They are looking for recommendations beyond traditional stretching methods.

Someone asked if there are any physical books with photos and names of pole dance moves for inspiration and to help remember routines. They prefer a hard copy as their pole is in a garage without easy computer access.

The author, a former jazz dancer, is experiencing performance anxiety in pole dancing classes. They can execute moves perfectly when alone but freeze up when observed, especially by the instructor, and struggle with freestyle sessions.

This thread discusses an upcoming aerial performance tournament with disciplines in pole, hoop, and silks. The author reminded people of the approaching application deadline and provided details.

Someone is planning to purchase a new pole and is questioning whether they need to add an extension to reach their 9ft ceilings, considering they also have carpet. They also asked about using a stud finder on a popcorn ceiling.

The author is visiting Las Vegas with friends but wants to continue pole training while there, specifically seeking a studio with open pole or advanced classes from August 15-17. They were having trouble finding information on one studio's website.

Someone is exploring spin pole and finding it difficult to adapt static moves to spinning. They enjoy the feeling of spinning but want ideas for more creative movement.

Someone is preparing for their first performance in September and is asking for recommendations on where to find sparkly outfits, like skirts, tops, or shorties. They are hoping to find something affordable.