Discussions

The author shared a recent argument with their mother about finances and expressed feelings of resentment. They felt their mother prioritises luxury spending over financial responsibility and guilt-trips them for not providing financial support.

The author is learning both Straight Edge and Ayesha, and is confused about the different body positions and grips needed for each move. They are looking for advice on building up to these skills.

Someone shared that they are selling pole apparel on an online auction site because they couldn't return items that didn't fit. They were hoping to find buyers within the community.

Someone is selling a lightly used, black, powder-coated Lil' Mynx static pole for $100. They are offering local pickup or delivery, and are open to offers.

Someone asked if people from the community were on Facebook, hoping to connect with others there. They shared this request to find fellow pole dancers.

The author is considering getting dermal anchors and asked if anyone has experience with them while pole dancing. They were concerned about potential pain or interference with movement, especially if placed on the back or arms.

The author is deciding between a 40mm Brass X-Pole and a Bobbi's Portable Pole, seeking recent reviews on both. They also offered their current pole for sale to local buyers.

Someone shared a link to a Harry Potter-themed pole dance video. The author thought it was awesome and wanted to share it with the community.

This thread is a birthday wish for the website creator. The author expressed gratitude for the community and wished them a happy birthday.

A member asked for feedback on menstrual cups as an alternative to tampons and pads. They were curious about the experience of other members who use them.

Someone asked about using a fog machine for a Halloween showcase, specifically if it would leave residue on skin or poles. They were considering testing one out to see.

The author is visiting Los Angeles and asked for recommendations on pole supply stores and any performances happening around Thanksgiving. They are particularly interested in finding places with a good selection of heels and shorts.

Someone is opening a new pole studio in Virginia and asked for any advice. They also shared a link to the studio’s social media page.

The author shared their changing perspective on men pole dancing, sparked by seeing male performers and a friend's husband on the pole. They asked others about their initial reactions to men in pole.

A member is reintroducing themself to the community after a long absence, sharing they are returning to pole after dealing with difficult life circumstances. They are excited to get back to dancing and have dusted off their pole.

The author is attending a pole fitness competition in Ontario to support friends and instructors, and is excited for their first live event. They asked who else was planning to go.

Someone discovered a source for the discontinued pink crash mats from Yoga Direct, sharing a link to a retailer that still has them in stock. The mats are more expensive than they used to be, but may be helpful for those still searching.

The author is considering booking a private lesson with their instructor, weighing the benefits of focused attention against the potential for feeling pressured and shutting down. They are hoping for a fun, productive session similar to a pole jam.

Someone shared that they've been making and selling pole dance themed items like notebooks, picture frames, and jewelry. They are hoping for feedback and are offering custom orders for studios.

Someone asked for help with a pole move they were struggling to achieve, sharing a photo as a reference. They were having trouble with the entry point and falling.

The author, 30 weeks pregnant, is upset after discovering she has diastasis recti (abdominal separation). She’s concerned she may have worsened it with her exercise routine and is worried about postpartum recovery and returning to pole dancing.

The author shared videos of a discussion about children and pole dancing on Anderson Cooper, asking for members' thoughts. The conversation centers on the stigma surrounding pole and how to best present it to the public.

The author is experiencing significant pole burn on their inner thighs and wondered if loose skin or stretch marks were contributing factors. They hadn't experienced this level of burn when they were thinner.

Someone expressed excitement for the October challenge, particularly as it coincides with their 44th birthday and the start of a new year. They are hoping for a fun and motivating challenge.

The author shared their discouragement after starting pole dancing, feeling overwhelmed by the strength required. They expressed frustration with their lack of progress and shared a history of negative self-belief.