Discussions

Someone is asking for recommendations on where to buy heels for pole dancing, specifically looking for bright and flashy options. They are hoping other members can share their favourite stores.

The author, a new pole dancer, shared that they are primarily interested in building strength and learning inverts, and aren't interested in spins, transitions, or floorwork. They asked for advice on how to achieve their goals and where to start.

The author asked for tips on drops, specifically the 'Teddy Drop', and shared a struggle with releasing during the 'sad girl' drop. They also wondered about the ideal number of drops in a routine.

Someone is looking for pole dance studios in central Illinois and asked if anyone in the community could offer suggestions. They are hoping to find a place for extra hands-on training.

The author is exploring whether contortion training can help with pole dancing, specifically with inverted tricks, and is also struggling with motivation and building strength after a pregnancy. They are curious if contortion can build muscle as well as flexibility.

The author experienced significant calf and knee pain after attempting a pole move—initially thought to be called Cupid but later identified as a Marley spin. They asked if this pain was normal and if they had done something wrong.

Someone asked for advice on achieving slower spins on a spinning pole, noting their spins tend to be very fast and don't suit graceful choreography. They were hoping to learn how to maintain a slow, controlled spin.

The author shared their struggle with fear during pole dancing, specifically with drops, handsprings, and Ayshas, despite having the strength and technique. They asked for advice on overcoming this mental block.

The author recently moved to a studio with thicker poles and is finding some moves more challenging. They asked whether working with thicker poles is beneficial for skill development or if they should stick with thinner poles.

Someone wondered if switching to a spinning pole might help improve the fluidity of their pole dance routines, as they learned on a static pole and want to create more seamless performances. They are looking for ways to avoid breaks in their flow.

The author was recently diagnosed with Grave's disease and is concerned about how it will affect their pole dancing, as their doctor has advised a month-long break. They were hoping to connect with others who have the condition to learn about their experiences.

Someone was wondering how long video uploads typically take, as their computer had been processing a video for five minutes. They were asking if this was a normal timeframe.

Someone recently received their new pole and shared their excitement about it. They described the pole as beautiful and expressed hope to set it up quickly.

The author is experiencing a mental block with a cartwheel handspring after a fall, and asked if others have lost moves due to fear or psychological barriers. They are currently in Berlin without a local pole community for support.

The discussion started with a pole dancer wondering about others' abilities to perform advanced moves on both sides, and which side they prefer for inverts. They shared their own preferences and inconsistencies.

The author wondered if combining glitch-mob or dubstep-inspired dance moves with pole dancing would be effective. They specifically mentioned artists like Zed's Dead and asked for opinions on whether it would look good.

Someone is planning a pole photoshoot and asked for advice on poses that photograph well, particularly spins. They wanted to hear about others’ experiences.

Someone shared a link to instructions for creating a 'Harlem Shake' style video, suggesting people try it with a particular website. The post was intended as a lighthearted diversion from pole dancing.

Someone asked about the Xpole spider top from a particular brand, specifically if it fits well for those with a larger bust. They were looking for feedback on sizing and overall experience.

Someone was having trouble with their hand grip, as a product they previously relied on stopped working with the warmer weather. They asked for suggestions for similar products to help with sweaty hands.

The author introduced themself as a new member and shared that pole dancing is a hobby for them, noting they're not a professional but enjoy it. They were excited to join the community after seeing others' dancing.

Someone is excited to announce they are launching a clothing line this summer, starting with unique hand gloves. They plan to share updates with the community as the project develops.

Someone attempted to dye their hair from black to dark red, but encountered some unexpected lightening during the process. They are now seeking advice on how to proceed with achieving the desired red colour.

The author shared their excitement about achieving some intermediate moves and asked others about their poling goals. They are planning to buy a spinning pole as a reward for progress.

Someone is selling a pair of unworn glow-in-the-dark platform heels, size 5 USA, with a 2.5" platform and 6" heel. They are offering to send a photo separately as they are having trouble uploading one.