Discussions

Someone asked about the heights of other people’s poles. They were curious to know what heights people are working with at home.

The author expressed feeling disconnected from friends who don't understand their passion for pole dancing and asked if others felt the same. They find it hard to share their excitement with those unfamiliar with the art form.

The author was asking for feedback comparing Lil Mynx and Pole Danzer poles, specifically seeking information on Pole Danzer as they are considering a purchase. They were particularly interested in permanent studio poles.

The author was discouraged after struggling with a chair spin in their second pole class, feeling it was too advanced. They questioned if they were progressing at the right pace and sought encouragement from the community.

Someone asked about experiences with a drop ceiling mount sold by a particular company. They were curious if anyone had used the equipment before.

Someone is seeking the community's help choosing between two versions of a song for a doubles pole performance. They are deciding between a metal cover and a dubstep remix of a popular song.

The author described a strange sensation of feeling stretches and movements, like splits, even when not actively doing them, and wondered if others experienced something similar. They shared this experience as a bit of a vent after a muscle pull.

Someone shared their positive experience with a pole fitness DVD focused on strength training. They appreciated the clear instruction, inclusive demonstrations, and the instructor’s responsiveness to questions.

The author's trio pole dance performance for a show has been reduced to a duet due to unforeseen circumstances. They are concerned about informing the show's director and how the change will be received.

Someone asked for opinions on brass X-poles compared to chrome, as they were deciding which to purchase. They were concerned about grip and overall usability.

The author, new to pole, is struggling with pole tucks and lifting their body weight, despite being generally strong and doing conditioning. They wondered if their body type was a factor or if they simply needed more time and training.

A member asked if others with larger thighs struggle with cross knee/ankle releases, specifically sliding or discomfort. They described issues with both techniques.

Someone is looking for recommendations for thick, high-quality unitards or similar garments, similar to a specific item from a retailer. They want something thicker than standard leggings.

Someone asked for tips on achieving the splits, noting the variety of advice available. They were hoping to hear what methods others found helpful in their own journeys.

Someone is having difficulty uploading a video to the platform after editing it with a common video editing program. They are experiencing a perpetual 'processing' state and are seeking advice.

The author is seeking advice on wrist strengthening exercises after reinjuring their wrist at a recent pole jam. They previously stopped pole due to wrist issues and want to safely return to training.

Someone noticed a realistic portrayal of a pole dancing class on a recent episode of a crime drama. They were pleased to see the dancers represented in everyday class attire, rather than stereotypes.

Someone announced the creation of a new Facebook group for pole dancers in Ontario. They invited others to join and share information about workshops, jams, and more.

Someone is moving to Amesbury, Massachusetts for work and is hoping to find a pole studio with intermediate or advanced evening classes. They asked for drop-in suggestions in the area.

Someone is considering attending a workshop with a well-known instructor but is concerned about the cost of travel and the workshop fee, given their student budget. They asked if anyone has taken a workshop with this instructor and what their experience was like.

A member's X-pert pole base became shaky and stuck after a session, causing a fall. They were seeking advice before contacting Xpole customer service.

The author shared an update on a shoulder injury sustained from a fall while attempting a butterfly. They received a diagnosis of early-stage frozen shoulder and are focusing on stretching to avoid surgery, and they were able to get back to practicing the butterfly.

The author, 19 months into their pole journey, is feeling discouraged about needing to revisit basic skills on both sides. They are looking for motivation from others who have had similar experiences.

The author is looking for recommendations on removable home poles, specifically comparing X Pole and Lil Mynx. They are concerned about sweaty hands, potential metal sensitivities, and finding a pole that is easy to set up and take down.

The author, who has a pixie cut, asked about replicating hair-based movements in pole dance and whether short hair is considered less attractive in the community. They were feeling self-conscious about not having long hair for typical moves.