[amberpoledancer]

OMG i dont know why someone hasnt thought about this before! excellent idea. Well im tall and very big boobed (34F…sometimes FF) and it is a pain to even get a half decent sports bra in my size never mind a pole bra https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif I managed to track down one (hot pink in colour) and its crap! no support at all!! So for the past year an a half (yes that long!!) i have been wearing only one bra when i pole! its not made for sports it just a fuller cupped bra that has faithfully done its job but is falling apart at the seams!! I NEED a pole bra!! wearing a normal bra to do any sports in is really bad but i dont have a choice! when i do a CAR the boobs fight to spill out, when i invert, when i shoulder mount, when i caterpillar!!! it really is a hinderance https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cry.gif I teach pole and work pretty much every night, thats a lot of poling and a lot of spillage! pleeease make a lovely bra that will cater for bigger cup sizes too, https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
Some nice designs and colours would be great also!! I live in the UK do you think if you manage to make them you would be selling them overseas as well?
lol you can tell im desperate for one cant you? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

[amberpoledancer]

Yes i hear what your saying many litle girls play dress up and theres nothing wrong with it. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif What im saying is this woman has been in a few magazines in the uk previously a few years ago boasting that she encourages her (then 10 year old daughter) to plaster on the make up she also encourages her to get sunbeds every week,pays for her to have hair,eyelash and nail extensions, and wear clothing that was on the skimpy side plus was saving up for her daughter to have a boob job!! her dream job for her daughter was to be a glamour model .It caused a back lash from the public then i remember. Now it seems shes starting it with the 7 year old….tad worrying https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_eek.gif

[amberpoledancer]

to be honest i always spin when doing a superman, i dont mean to it just happens. I suspect its because my top hand doesnt have a good enough grip, it can make doing the move for me much harder than it is! id rather id didnt spin at all https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

[amberpoledancer]

no all i could see was the 38mm version which im not very keen on https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif

[amberpoledancer]

Yeh chemgoddess that does seem like a crazy price to pay! For me even 699.00 pounds is a tad out my price range, I can. Get quality pole stages from other companies for roughly 450.00.! Just wanted to see what all the fuss was about x

[amberpoledancer]

lol does anyone go into a pole trance?? I do it all the time when im listening to my ipod ill sit and go into a little trance visualising moves and routines in my head https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif . Haaaa i thought i was the only one,iv been doing this for YEARS! im terrible. i can be walking down the street and end up totally blanking people i know by accident becuase im in a little pole day dream.! Anyways im off to my pole studio now, time for more pole trance like states on the journey there! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif

[amberpoledancer]

yup iv seen this before its pretty wild! its thought that pole dancing may have some origins from this discipline. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

[amberpoledancer]

It amazes me how nasty guys can be for no reason at all and it angers me! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mad.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mad.gif Unfortunatly it seems to happen to me on a regular basis. Im 5 ft 8, (uk size 10) and blonde. yet iv lost count the number of times guys have insulted me in bars for no reason. One recent example. I was out in a bar/club having a good time with friends. At midnight we make our way into the club area which was just wrapping up a miss uk modelling competition that had been going on whilst the club was closed to the public. So as you can imagine there are loads of stick thin gorgous girls floating around in skimpy outfits….and more than a fair share of them were wannabes. The guys who were friends or boyfriends of the models were worse, perma tanned and had the "im gods gift" attitude. So anyways im feeling a little self conscious but i got to the bar with my friend to get a drink. as im waiting i notice to my left a rather drunk fake tanned muscluar male standing next to me, giving me a stare that could kill! Honestly this guy was looking at me like i was something unpleasent hed just stood on. After 5 mins of this staring i had to say something so i turned around and said "im sorry but do you have a problem"? To which he replied "yeh you!! You and your BINGO WINGS!!!! I was so shocked at this out burst of sheer nastiness i didnt know what to say. For one who the HELL did he think he was? What the hell had i done to him? Two iv got the most toned and strong upper arms iv ever hand in my life thanks to teaching pole fitness, so bingo wings is something i dont have! Yet here was this guy, surrounded by models thinking he can just call me names and ruin my night because he feels like it.
I quckly regained my composure and pointed out hs double chin and receeding hair line, but still my night was ruined and i went home feeling fat and ugly. But hey as i said before this is maybe number 120 in the random nasty comments or incidents i seem to attract. I dont think anything a guy says to me will surprise me now!

[amberpoledancer]

Aww thanks for all the advise everyone. Onepinkprincess you’ve got some really good points there thanks,those are very good ideas. I have been friends on facebook with deb riley, pantera, felix cane and many many others for a while now. I often get invites to taylors retreat and other masterclasses throughout the uk, and i have even been fortunate. Enough To judge a pole competiton with the owner of pole2pole magazine. Its a great way to network with people in the pole world. I am defo gonna arrange a masterclass but I need to save up the pennies! Right now all the money I make goes straight back into the business for more poles and other stuff. Right now I’m doing all I can to promote my school. Pole twista your post made me laugh and really cheered me up lol. Yeh I am defo gonna have a more positive attitude. You are right, iv worked too hard to give up now!

[amberpoledancer]

I know i wish we could all just get together and pole jam but unfortunatly the other schools are just too aggressive with what they see as competition. But yeh i do have an unique selling point that makes me different from the others i just need to get it out there a bit more i guess! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif . Guest appearences is also a very good idea! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

[amberpoledancer]

Hi im about to do one in april. we are colaborating with hairdressers, beauty therapists, Ann Summers and a few others who may be looking to promo their business into a ladies charity night. I am going to be demonstrating and teaching those who want to give pole fitness a go. So its a whole host of girlie things to try on the night whilst raising money for a good cause…plus free publicity. Might be an idea for you too? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

[amberpoledancer]

Yup best thing to do is chat with the dancers at the chosen club. see what they do, whats expected of you ect. As i said before going fully nude doesnt necessarly mean for a full 3 or 4 min song. If you stripped right off at the beginning it would get boring very quickly for the guy. Believe it or not some men are uncomfortable with dancers who get their bits out and right in the guys face. (so i have been told by a few male friends) especially if theyve been bought a dance by a friend or if its a bachelor party and they are under pressure to go along with it. I used to encounter many guys that were sometimes just as nervous and uncomfortable about the full thing as any newbie dancer. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_redface.gif

[amberpoledancer]

Hi i used to work in a few clubs in Scotland. I think our rules are slightly different than the U.S but as its stands just now i dont know of any club in scotland or many in the U.K that dont do fully nude lap dances. When i first started out many years ago (i was engaged at the time im now married) i worked in a topless only club. It soon closed down as every other club in my city were giving nude dances for the same price so they were losing business. As for pole dances its usually the norm to do them topless or in underwear, i havnt seen many pole dances that are fully nude…have you tryed poling nude it is SORE!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif In the u.k we dont get tips for pole dancing so all the money is made in lapdances so maybe thats why. The last time i worked in a club was about 2 years ago. I was very nervous with the whole nude thing but there are ways around it you can go nude with out putting yourself at risk. EVERY club SHOULD have a strict no touching rule. If a guy trys to touch you in anyway you should firmly tell him no and that the dance will stop if he does it again, if hes stupid enough to try it again end the dance and inform the clubs security to deal with him. A reputable club will not put up with this behaviour and will protect their dancers. If they dont, i wouldnt work there. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif For a fully nude dance i would go topless pretty quickly and do alot of full on lap tricks ie grinding, lap contact ect but id still have my g string on for this. When i was ready to take this off i would maintain a distance away from the guy tease it off slowly and concentrate on a lot of floor tricks. That way he gets to see you nude, gets a good show but your not making any physical contact at all. I always used to go nude near the end of the dance so that you are not "vunerable" for very long. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif There are some dancers that will push boundarys for more dances ie nude lady bits right in the guys face, gridding naked in their laps, letting guys touch them ect. I personaly would never do this. Your asking for trouble and are more likely to get a few stray fingers somewere you dont want them to go! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_eek.gif
Anyways hope this has been helpful good luck with it! im sure you will be fine https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

[amberpoledancer]

Thanks everyone I had a sneaky suspicion it could b some sort of calcium deposit from a bang or pressure. I have similar ones at the bottom of some of my fingers were the finger meets the hand,had them a few years now. But yeh ill try massaging it to see if it goes away…it just feels so weird! Lol

[amberpoledancer]

that was amazing!!!! im so jealous! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif Men are so good a pole because of their natural strength but that performance was brilliant! one of the best male performances if seen yet! well done https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_thumright.gif

[amberpoledancer]

ahhhhhh mostuirise no theres a thing i didnt think of!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif i usually try and stay away from it before poling because it makes the pole too slimy but doing it the morning before on cold dry skin will prob work! …now that i think about it,a few weeks back i fake tanned myself in the morning (love my fake tan i do …well in scotland we dont get much chance of a real sun tan lol) its a lotion so can be quite slippy. I jumped on my pole that nite and was actually quite sticky! Think ill try that in the morning then pole at nite see what happens. Does vodka work on the pole btw? i also heard coke works on it as well to make it sticky https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif mite be a bit too sticky though! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif

[amberpoledancer]

I was 23 when I first discovered pole dance. Me and my friends went along to a strip club for a laugh and I was mesmerised by the amazing pole performances I saw. (To be honest it was prob not that amazing but to someone who had never seen a proper pole dance before it was!) A few months after that I found pole classes and was hooked……I’m now 28 and have been poling on and off for about 5years. I danced in a few clubs myself,stopped and did more lessons at other pole schools. I now teach myself. Its crazy to think how pole dancing has changed so much in those 5 years. When I started there was hardly any pole schools,and I didn’t dare tell anyone my little hobbie. Now its soooo popular and quickly becoming the most popular way to get fit and I love it!!

[amberpoledancer]

cool i just bought em today,it was easy enough and turned out that a 30 day purchase cost me 12 pounds which is really good value! im off to put some lessons into practice now! thanks veena https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

[amberpoledancer]

Hiya I’m from glasgow in scotland,welcome!,ur bar sounds like a lot of fun! We should have more bars like that in glasgow! Lol we’ve only got one or two but the poles arnt great (non strip clubs I mean). Keep at your poling and watch veenas lessons they are great! Sounds to me you are progressing quite well for some1 who hasn’t been to classes or anything so well done!! I like to dismount from inverted cruxifix either in a spin dismount (were you come down near the ground fold into one arm,push with the other hand and kinda spin round and down off the pole) if that makes sense? Lol, x

[amberpoledancer]

Hi i dont think my elbows hyperextend,although i have a friend whos does!! its the coolest thing iv seen! Nah mind seem pretty straight. Think i may just have really crap weak wrists and forearms. Was never able to do a catterpillar using the forearm grip either i could pull myself up but i couldnt hold it for long and it never felt secure. find an elbow grip works best for me….so yeh my forearms prob are a bit weak.

[amberpoledancer]

hey guys i see what your saying and it makes sense,but iv been poling for abt 3 or 4 years ( i was also a professional dancer in a club as well for a time) This pain has never went away for me,so iv kinda learned to live with it. Although im slow to learn moves id say im pretty advanced (although not as advanced as i want to or prob should be https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_confused.gif ) Do you think its maybe because when i was learning as a beginner i didnt properly prepair my muscles hence the arm pain i still get to this day?? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_scratch.gif

[amberpoledancer]

thanks everyone ill try it from legs together first and see how i go. Yeh i meant the Jade splits (couldnt remember the name) looks like ill have to master the hiphold before i can even think of attempting this https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

[amberpoledancer]

hi chilli sounds good ill need to try it again. Do you stand with your side to the pole or do come forward of the pole to have your back and bum mostly into it? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_rendeer.gif

[amberpoledancer]

I get the EXACT same thing,dull achey throbbing deep into the bone after doing certain moves that put alot of strain on my forearms or wrists. No one else knew what i was talking about so thank god its not just me! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif I used to have quite weak wrists (or wrist muscles) they are very small and thin so it took me a while to master things like the carousel and boomerang were your wrist and arm are taking some of your weight and pushing your body away from the pole. Iv been doing this move for years and i still sometimes get the dull bone ache all the way from my wrist to my elbow hrs after poling. Same with the reverse pinwheel (or helterskelter as i call it) i let my left arm take my weight and grab behind me with the right…well the left forearm also gets the dull bone ache as well now. I dont know if this ever goes away i know im doing these moves 100 correct as iv been doing em for years and several instructors have clarified that. All i can think of is its the way im made. Before i started poling and even sometimes now i get the same ache when iv very cold bizarrely enough! (someone said this is called rhumatics??) It aches deep from my ankles to my knees and from my wrists to my elbows. Iv always had it ever since i was little and now i get the same ache with poleing..weird huh? I just take paracetamol and it goes away pretty easily. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif

[amberpoledancer]

oh man i so wanna get the teddy i think it looks amazing! so far iv had no luck coz im not actually sure im doing it right. I take it you use your dominant arm that you invert with? (mine being my left) Get the pole into the armpit and side and kinda try and get your legs into a V shape and hold em? Looks reasonable enough when you see it on vids but when i try i cant even get near to holding the move! lol and i thought i had good armpit grip! think i need it broken down for me https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_scratch.gif