PoleSkivvies
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@Veena – I’m just at a computer too much, plus the seat of my car is too big for me (you wouldn’t believe the number of pillow I have to add to fill up that bucket seat!), so it just hits wrong and, eventually, the muscles started flipping out.
@CheeryBomb – thank you! I’ll give that stretch a try!
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Hang int here – we all go through that. When I got my Xpert – after returning a different pole that I did not like – I was all unmotivated. I had been so excited about the new pole that, having to return one and order another was wearing me down. But I pushed through and just tried to dance and play, and it all came back!
And, personally, I found the grip on my Xpert so fantastic that that became motivation itself. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
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I think that’s a great idea! I’ve been focusing more on the dancing part lately, trying to get that fluidity, so I’ll be sure to think on this next time I’m on the pole.
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I am totally working on the splits thing, too. I’ve had this annoying hamstring pain for months, but when I do my prep stretches for center splits, it goes away. So, I guess that tells me where my muscles are really locked!
Does anyone else get knee pain from attempting center splits? Something in my right knee does not want to give, so I proceed very cautiously and slowly, but I’m wondering if there are other stretches I can do to help it release.
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@Empyrean – That is so cool – I’m taking Sally Ann’s class, too! And happy birthday!
@Jessalyn – WA-HOO!!! I’m so excited! I cannot believe how many amazing pole dancers will be at this event!
Everyone, please drop by and say hi to me – PoleSkivvies will have a booth! Plus, I’m giving a talk on stage fright. I would so LOVE to meet everybody in person!!! I’m staying at the Gaylord, too, so I can be in the thick of things! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
See you there!
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Ooh, what is the House of Pole?
And I’d love to meet you, too!
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Ooh … I hope I can make those dates work … I used to live in DC and it would be so fun to go back for a pole event!
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Ottersocks, that is really interesting to know! I like that tricks aren’t emphasized as much as flow – keeps it safer, since competitors won’t feel forced to be more and more daring, just to get the points, which happens with some sports.
I hope Alethea feels better soon – ouch!
And, if anyone’s interested, I did post on the event here: http://poleskivvies.com/
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Thanks, BlueEyes, for sharing that bit about the judging criteria! I was a little confused about that.
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Good progress!
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Ooh, a little pole mystery solved! Welcome to the blogosphere!
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Dying to hear what you find out – my new Xpert arrives this week!
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Absolutely!!
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Do you understand how much fun we’re going to have? Do you realize the level of greatness this is going to be at?
Yes!
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That age is so hard …
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I will so be there!
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So glad you got it taken down! That is such a strong thing to do – to fight for that!
My stepdaughter is just entering the preteen years and it scares the hell out of me. All the things I dealt with when I was young, I am scared of her having to deal with. I know everyone has to learn to cope, but it’s so hard when it’s your kid and not yourself.
For kids not into martial arts, does anyone have any experience if basic mediation skills can help avoid fights like these? Not getting a mediator, but teaching conflict resolution skills?
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Hey Glitter, glad you’re fine for now, and glad your current guy seems so cool.
Just one thing about "staying positive" – I’ve got Crohn’s disease which, in my teens and 20s was a big problem, and one thing that really helped, and has helped when I’ve been ill with other things, as well, is NOT staying positive.
Not that I mean becoming a whining, hopeless, despair-laden person. I just mean, these things are scary and it’s not natural to be upbeat and cheery when you’re scared. Or when you’re grieving for the loss of your own health. I know it’s really popular now to say keeping a positive attitude is the key, but there’s a fine line between keeping a sense that thing might come together well in the end, and forcing a smile on your face no matter what you really feel. Your body heals by moving through emotions (that’s one reason dance is so powerful), so never block your fear or your sadness. Let them flow, and you’ll feel better and be better able – physically and emotionally – to cope with whatever is happening.
Lots of love to you!
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Glitter, this is so why we love you! You take what is such a hard time for you and your family, and turn it right around to help others. Thank you!
And, to Litlebit, you are one tough lady! Hugs!
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This is so encouraging! I’ve been working on splits this year, too. Used to be able to do side splits with ease, but everything’s locked up lately from too much sitting at the computer. Been stretching more, though, and it’s helping!
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It was an AWESOME interview! Fleur, people have been going crazy about it – from Facebook to the post to Twitter. We LOVE you!!!
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Ooh, I’m really wanting to know about this, too! I have a webcam built into my laptop, but I’ve been eye-ing the Flip. Just not sure if it’s worth making the switch.
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I second GatorGirl4Life – a school isn’t necessarily the real world, so why knock yourself out changing it. As pole dancing becomes more commonplace, the school will adapt. So go where you can be appreciated – and don’t change your sexy style to cater to somebody’s false-superiority complex. Dance from the heart and people will love you all the more for it!
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Loving the video! You have such a natural sensuality in how you move. Beautiful!
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Awww, you guys are the sweetest – thank you!
