[MrsNaughtywed]

I've lost my bewbs too. And I cry about it every time I think about. it. I went from a full C cup to an A in a month when I quit the birth control pill for medical reasons. Being fit and a pole athlete doesn't help either. 

I found out recently that I cannot get a boob job because of a heart problem I have. Looks like I am stuck for the rest of my life with small boobs. 🙁

I cannot buy bras anymore. It's so sad. The smallest size they sell around here is 32A but that is too big! My true size would be a 28A but no one sells that. FML! I even buy kids clothes a lot because womens clothing is too big in the chest because I don't have boobs to fill a shirt. 

I've always had bad body image issues. I always feel inadequate as a women. I'm embarrassed to wear a bikini sometimes. Sometimes I'm embarrassed to be topless in front of my own husband. Because  when we met I had huge porn star looking tits and now I look like a child. I feel like a women stuck in a 7 year old girls body. 🙁  I'm going to be 30 in 6 months and I'm often mistaken for being in high school! 🙁

The only place I'm comfortable about my small boobs is my pole studio. There we preach self acceptance and love your body the way it is. Thanks to SASS studio I'm comfortable strutting around in a sports bra. 🙂 Thank god!

Recently I've been working super hard on a self attitude adjustment. I've stopped buying Oxygen magazine and other fitness magazines because all the women in the magazines are all super lean with huge muscles.. and breast implants… This isn't an example of a healthy woman..

A healthy woman loses breast fat when she works out and gets in shape. It's a natural consequence of getting into shape and I wish society would view that as okay, and not okay to lose your boobs. So lately I've been taking a stand and not giving into societies pressure to look like the perfect women that doesn't exist unless you have 10 grand for plastic surgery. I think we should just all love ourselves the way we are. And accept the fact that breasts change a lot during your life time. (Weight, medications, pregnancy, hormones, fitness, etc) 🙂

Love ourselves ladies!!!!! <3 <3 <3 

 

[MrsNaughtywed]

Yes, pole fitness can affect your job! It's sad and it can.. Being someone who also works with children, be careful! Make sure that both lives are separate. I've done my do diligence and from personal experience, you have the right to a private life if you have shown you have tried on your part to keep both lives separate. With that said, if anything should occur, you have the right to sue their ass as a violation of your human rights and it's major discrimination. I would look up your rights in your country because most countries have literature stating you have the freedom of association, especially in Canada. I've made it very clear about my past in my workplace and I also made it very clear I know my rights. I doubt anyone would want to try shit with me. I'll sue their asses off. :p 

[MrsNaughtywed]

Welcome to the pole life!!! 

My mother in law is 51 and she's almost surpassing me in pole. 

Anyone can do this. 🙂

[MrsNaughtywed]

I am hoping they come out with a vegan, gluten free product before I try it. 🙂

[MrsNaughtywed]

What a great idea!!!!! I’m ready to seek constructive feedback for my pole dancing! 🙂

[MrsNaughtywed]

OMG I love my new Platinum Stages Star Stand Alone 3.0! It works awesome! I think it just needed to be worked it! Yay! 🙂

[MrsNaughtywed]

I got it! Woohoo! And no power tools. Lol. I just had to really fucking force the other pieces away before pushing the last one away. Lol!! Now I’m walking on it popping pieces out and back in. Maybe it needs to be worn in? Omg thank god I finally got it! I was so frustrated!

Yeah I used the xstage and the star stand alone. Both really great poles. I couldn’t decide forever which one to get but I like that the star is lighter, faster to set up (other ones i used), just a pin to pull for spin mode.

[MrsNaughtywed]

I think they are or super close.

Now one of the spikes where the pie piece is supposed to slide in near the base is bent from me jumping trying to force the pie pieces in.

I’m so tempted to use a saw and trim one of them. But that’s probably not a good idea. Lol. I’m gonna give it a few more hours and if I still can’t get it I’m taking out a power tool.

[MrsNaughtywed]

They all look pretty close…

[MrsNaughtywed]

I teach pole parties too. I start with a warm up, safety rules, teach some trasitions and easy spins and a couple dancey moves. Then I put it together in a cute little routine. They usually want to see me perform something too. Then stretching and done. Is this the usual format for some? Just wondering, I also would love to learn to news to jazz them up abit. No one has complained that my pole parties were not fun but I always like to do new things. 

[MrsNaughtywed]

Wow she's amazing. She's my new favourite pole idol! I can't find anything inappropriate about her or her performance at all. It's totally appropriate. I see more inappropriateness with kids in jazz, hip hop or other kinds of dance! 🙂

[MrsNaughtywed]

I KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was so disappointed! I personally knew a couple of pole dancers who make it to the taping. But they were not aired! 🙁  

So I unfollowed Canada's Got Talent on Twitter and 'unliked' their Facebook page. :p

[MrsNaughtywed]

I'd like to see no pole dance fitness competition discriminate against athletes also employed by the adult industry. 

[MrsNaughtywed]

I’m here now and was wondering that too because i can’t see much from where I am.

[MrsNaughtywed]

It took me just over a year to get all the way down. I am the most unflexible person everrr. I worked on my splits approx 3-4 times a week. Sometimes more. Sometimes less. I kind of wasn't consistant and I have no one to blame but myself. But anyways, it took me just over a year to get all the way down. It's now 1.5 years and I still don 't feel comfortable getting all the way down. And there are still some days where I regress a little. Keep working at it. It can take a long time but you will get it if you don't give up. 🙂

I suggest working on your splits after a good workout. Your body is so warm and loose after and it can stretch much more. 🙂

[MrsNaughtywed]

Pole dancing is my distraction to my life long battle with anxiety and depression. I deal with anxiety and depression every single day and I just find that when I'm forcused on pole, I find a sense of relief. I also had major issues in self esteem and body image but I love how pole changed all that for me to a healther me. 🙂

 

[MrsNaughtywed]

I just got a cool mist one for my house because I noticed it was REALLY DRY in my house. After a couple days of running this thing, it feels better in my house and it also makes a big difference with the pole. I think there needs to be a bit of humidity while poleling. You stick better. 🙂 I try and keep my house at 50% now. 

[MrsNaughtywed]

ME TOO!!! Tara Karina was the first pole dancer I saw on Youtube that insipired me to sign up for lessons. I wonder what happened to her. 

[MrsNaughtywed]

You are right polegypsy! Lana Del Rey kicks ass! Blue Jeans is my fav!!! Have you heard the dubstep remix??? It's sick!!!! I've been working with this track for a while now. I've been working on a hot routine for Valentines day for my hubby. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V16GpyGRMvo&nbsp;

 

[MrsNaughtywed]

Thanks for this video Veena!!!!  And I don't think it was biased!

Here's an unbiased comment. I've poled on BOTH POLES. I think both are GREAT! And I'm not kissing ass when I say I agree with Veena's video where PS is more wobbly than Xstage. I found Xstage more secure and I like that there is more height. So what, I would totally own both. Each has their pros and cons. It all depends on personal pole dancers preference.

I've been poling for 3 years now and every month I chage my mind on what pole I like more. LOL! 

[MrsNaughtywed]

Just make sure you are not stressing your bottom arm too much or putting your entire weight on your bottom arm. I learned the hard way. Try and focus on squeezing you elbow grip more so that you put more weight on your elbow too. Best of luck. 🙂

[MrsNaughtywed]

I love this video. Thanks for posting it!

[MrsNaughtywed]

Jay Leno is an ugly asshole. I wouldn't do him if he offered me all his money or even if he was the last man on earth. Gross. 

LULU, I love you! Keep kicking ass on the pole okay! You are a hero! You are saving womens lives by influencing them into a healthy lifestyle! xoxoxoxox LULU!

[MrsNaughtywed]

Thanks englann! I won't give up. Just a healing break and I'll try again later. 🙂

[MrsNaughtywed]

Amy I don't think I've tried it from a layback/cross knee before. I might try it from those moves once my arm feels better. I'm curious to see if from a different move do I run into the same problem. 

Cinara thanks for your reply. I'm not quite sure what the embrace hold is but I asume it's an upright elbow hook?  Been doing some thinking and I just think that this is too dangerous for me. I've tried it a million times and I just cannot seem to do it safely without hurting it more. I just don't think I'm strong enough. I'm not trying to get down on myself, just being honest. Yesturday I couldn't even open up my car door with this arm. I think I ran into one of my limits I just may have to stay away from or I'm just not ready yet. 

Thanks ladies. Just needed someone to validate what I've been thinking. Because others are getting it after a few tries at my studio except me. And I just wanted to understand why I can't do it yet. 🙂