Discussions

Someone asked for advice on transitioning from a pike position into a superman on the pole. They are already comfortable with both individual moves and are looking for tips on connecting them.

The author is working on transitioning from a Superman pose into a Small Boy drop and is seeking written advice to supplement video tutorials. They are comfortable with the Superman pose itself and want to learn the drop safely.

The author was seeking suggestions for a stage name and asked how others chose theirs. They shared a list of names they liked and asked for feedback.

The author shared a humorous experience of showing her husband a practice video and realizing he had an unrealistic expectation of her pole skills. She now plans to keep practice private to maintain the 'illusion' for him.

Someone spotted a star-shaped light designed to attach to the top of a pole and wondered if anyone else had experience with similar items. They were curious if it would be practical or get in the way.

The author was concerned their friend might be purchasing a counterfeit X-pole from a website with typos and asked if the site was legitimate. They were worried about their friend's safety.

The author is looking for a good instructional DVD focused on exotic dance techniques, like booty shakes and floor work, as classes are inaccessible. They specifically mentioned wanting something 'nasty' and shared their preferences.

Someone shared information about a pole dance performance happening in Los Angeles on Monday night, encouraging those nearby to attend. They mentioned a teacher is one of the performers.

Someone is struggling to achieve a pole sit, despite trying different techniques. They are experiencing slippage and are looking for advice to overcome this challenge.

The author initially inquired about a member's honeymoon plans, and the member revealed they were going to Egypt as a surprise organised by their partner. They later shared details of their trip upon their return.

The author shared their positive experience after attending their first pole dancing class, noting a small class size and encouragement from the instructor. They also mentioned feeling good about their progress, including weight loss and the high calorie burn of the workout.

The author shared that they are separating from their husband of 27 years after a long period of unhappiness, particularly stemming from his disapproval of their bodybuilding. They are moving out and will have limited access to the forum.

The author is questioning whether to allow her 13-year-old daughter to explore pole dancing after a positive initial experience. She is concerned about societal perceptions and potential misuse of the skill.

The author shared their enthusiastic experience attending a pole competition in Las Vegas, highlighting the skill and confidence of the performers. They were particularly impressed by one competitor nicknamed 'Spider' and her dynamic performance.

Someone asked the community what video editing software they recommend, as they are finding their new software too complicated and lacking instructions. They were hoping for something user-friendly and affordable.

The author shared their experience performing at a third amateur night, describing the other contestants and the outcome. They placed in the competition and were offered a job at the club.

A new member from Minnesota introduced themself to the forum, sharing their recent start with pole dancing and acknowledging the challenge to their upper body strength. They expressed excitement about the new hobby despite the difficulty.

Someone asked if installing an X-Pole would damage a stucco ceiling, as they are a new dancer and concerned about potential damage. They also mentioned considering the impact on future house sales.

A member shared a new YouTube video comparing a low-quality pole to a better one, aiming to warn others about the dangers of cheaper options. They originally made a similar video years ago.

Someone shared a video of their pole dance performance as part of a challenge. The dance included a prop and the poster was looking for feedback.

Someone is looking to purchase an X-stage and asked where to buy one in the U.S. They also have a high ceiling and are deciding between an X-stage and an X-pole with a special mount.

Someone is very excited to share that they have finally purchased a new pole after saving for a long time. They are thrilled with their purchase and wanted to share their joy with the community.

The author shared a story about how her husband unexpectedly defended her pole dancing to her family, who initially misunderstood it as stripping. She also excitedly announced they've chosen a room for her pole in their new home.

The author expressed frustration with a lack of progress, specifically struggling with the cross ankle release, teddy, and extended butterfly. They asked if this feeling of being stuck is a common experience.

Someone started a new pole dancing group in Chicago through a different platform and posted to find local members of the forum. They are hoping to connect with others who share their enthusiasm for pole.