Discussions

The author shared information about a false cancer 'cure' circulating online, along with resources to help people identify misinformation. They wanted to raise awareness about spotting unreliable health claims.

The author asked about experiences with self-teaching pole, and many members shared that they are either fully or partially self-taught. Several mentioned the challenges of technique without an instructor.

The author shared a video audition for the show Cupcake Wars, made with a fellow pole dancer and friend. They explained their complementary skills – one is a better baker, the other a better decorator.

The author is upset about a knee injury sustained while pole dancing, and is concerned about how it will affect their progress and potential future surgery. They were hoping to hear from others with similar experiences and coping strategies.

Someone posted about selling a used X-Pole Xpert 50mm TG in the UK via an online auction site. They shared a link to the listing with the community.

Someone was frustrated because they hadn't received shipping notification or a response after ordering a grip product. They shared their experience and expressed dissatisfaction with the lack of communication.

The author shared a story about a new student making a rude comment about their clothing choices in pole class. The author found the situation amusing, but was impressed with how the instructor handled it by defending a judgement-free environment.

The author, a beginner pole dancer working on inverts and the chopper, asked about the experience of pole dancing with acrylic nails. They were finding it difficult to keep the nails on during practice and wondered if others had similar issues.

The author, new to pole, questioned if her age (and recent weight gain) was hindering her progress and shared feeling self-conscious about it. She was seeking connection with other 'baby-boomers' in the community.

The author started a discussion about fears related to pole dancing moves, sharing their anxiety about brass monkeys after a fall. Many members responded with their own fears.

The author is seeking advice on how to develop "flow" and sensuality in their pole dancing, beyond just learning moves and transitions. They're looking for ways to achieve a more natural, connected, and expressive dance style.

The author shared a positive experience with a therapeutic massage that significantly improved flexibility in one leg. They are curious if others have experienced similar results from addressing muscle adhesions.

The author received a message offering payment for including a link to a pole dancing trick book in their YouTube videos and asked if it seemed legitimate. They were suspicious of the offer of $20 per video.

The author completed a 30-day pole program and is now feeling overwhelmed by the number of tricks they want to learn, and the need to revisit earlier skills. They are also recovering from an illness and feeling a bit lost with their training.

The author is experiencing elbow pain while practicing the Twisted Grip Ayesha, suspecting it's related to hyperextension. They are seeking advice on how to modify their technique or training to alleviate the discomfort.

The author is training to be a pole instructor and received feedback that their lessons, while technically sound, lack energy and presence. They are seeking ideas from the community on how to create more upbeat lessons, even on days when they aren't feeling particularly enthusiastic.

The author is trying to decide which pole finish would be best for their climate (cold, semi-arid continental) and skin type, having had negative experiences with titanium gold. They are seeking recommendations based on others' experiences with different finishes.

A member started a discussion asking others if they pole nude, sharing that they personally enjoy it. They invited others to share their opinions and experiences.

The author recently got a pole and found a particular move painful in the crotch area, questioning if this is a common issue for those with a male anatomy or a form problem. They asked if there's a way to modify the move to avoid discomfort.

Someone shared that a television show featured the wife of a celebrity discussing her experience taking a pole dance class. The original poster was excited about the positive representation.

This person recently purchased a new pole and is excited to start training, but is currently focusing on physiotherapy for back and wrist issues. They are looking forward to having more space for poling in the future and are hoping for classes to become available in their area.

Someone is having trouble locating a video they favorited on the platform. They are new to using a Mac and are asking for help finding their saved video.

A member shared their experience with a rotator cuff injury sustained during a snowboarding accident and asked for recommendations for moves to rebuild strength and flexibility. They are currently in physical therapy but are feeling frustrated with the slow recovery.

The author is experiencing significant pinching and discomfort during their first pole climb as part of a 30-day challenge, and is questioning if this pain is normal. They wondered why pole artists don't appear to be in pain in videos.

The author expressed frustration with rude and elitist behavior, particularly towards newcomers, and questioned why others excuse such behavior with “That’s just the way they are.” They shared a vent about people lacking decency.