Discussions

Someone is preparing for their first pole competition and is feeling very nervous about it. They shared their anxieties with the group and asked for help managing them.

The author shared their experience of unknowingly purchasing a fake Xpole from eBay, discovering the issue when contacting Xpole directly about problems with the pole. They are seeking to get a refund and are frustrated by the situation.

Someone is selling a chrome top-loading pole, originally purchased in 2008, and is looking for local buyers. They specified it's suitable for beginners and includes original instructions.

Someone is asking about experiences with a Jamilla Deville workshop coming to their studio. They want to know what to expect from the classes being offered.

The author purchased a used pole and is concerned about its functionality, noting issues with rotation, locking screws, and stability. They are questioning if the pole is functioning as intended and if it might be counterfeit.

The author was feeling intimidated before their first pole class in years, particularly due to weight gain and concerns about being less experienced than others. They shared their anxieties and asked if anyone else had similar experiences.

The author shared a humorous post listing relatable experiences of motherhood, from pregnancy cravings to sleepless nights and the joys of watching children grow. It was posted to celebrate Mother's Day.

The author is unhappy with their graphic design job, feeling it stifles creativity and doesn't align with their values. They are considering a career change but feel lost and lack confidence.

Someone is having trouble with a slippery brass pole, specifically a first generation model. They are looking for solutions to improve the grip.

Someone using a specific 30-day pole program is wondering about the recommended rest schedule. They aren't experiencing soreness and are questioning whether to pole every day instead of every other day.

Someone new to pole is looking for printable checklists or worksheets with illustrations to track progress and potentially use in classes. They are short on time due to family commitments and hoped others had resources to share.

Someone asked for advice on learning a shouldermount flip to the ground, specifically how to begin the process. They are already comfortable with the shouldermount itself and are considering a mat and spotter.

Someone new to the Bremerton, Washington area is looking for pole and silks studios nearby. They recently moved from San Diego and are hoping to find local options.

Someone wished all the mothers in the community a Happy Mother's Day. The author simply wanted to share well wishes on the holiday.

The author’s mother is visiting an X-pole store and the author is curious about what the inside looks like. They are concerned about whether the store environment might be inappropriate for the mother’s friend, who is unaware of the pole purchase.

The author shared a negative experience with a UK pole vendor, detailing damage to a purchased pole and difficulties with returns. They warned others about potential issues with the company and their customer service.

Someone shared some heartwarming videos of their children joining in on their pole practice as a celebration of Mother’s Day. They wanted to share the sweet moments and acknowledge the hard work of pole-dancing mothers.

Someone shared an article questioning the benefits of stretching, particularly for those not in disciplines like pole dancing. They were curious about others' experiences with flexibility training and whether they'd found it helpful.

Someone new to pole is deciding between a 45mm or 50mm pole, specifically a Chrome X-Sport. They are concerned about grip and thigh holds given their body type and are asking for opinions on which size is better for beginners.

A member shared a link to privately-hosted booty tutorial videos on a video platform, asking people to subscribe to view them. The author encountered some technical difficulties with the privacy settings.

The author is struggling with performing an aerial inverted V on a spinning pole, finding the spin stops when they move their body to the front of the pole. They wondered if their technique differed from others.

The author is questioning whether to compete in an upcoming pole competition after a recent personal setback. They are concerned about diminished strength and a costume issue, and are struggling with the idea of performing if they aren't at their best.

Someone was looking for a direct email address for someone at Xpole US, as previous attempts through the website, Facebook, and tech support hadn't received a response. They were hoping for a contact similar to those at other pole companies.

Someone in Tennessee is looking to connect with other pole dancers in their area for home practice. They find it difficult to find people locally who share their interest in pole.

The author is struggling with leg grips on a 40mm pole, despite not using lotion and having relatively smooth skin. They are seeking advice on how to improve their grip, given their height, weight, and hand size.