Discussions

A member shared their struggles learning the twisted lift, feeling it was more difficult than anticipated and seeking advice on strengthening exercises and technique. They were hoping for tips to help with this challenging move.

A member noticed their upper body is becoming more muscular from pole training, creating a noticeable imbalance with their smaller lower body. They asked if there were ways to address this, such as targeted workouts or stretches.

Someone is struggling to achieve a back walkover despite a dance background and is wondering what they might be missing. They are finding it difficult to transition from a backbend into the flip.

The author was setting up a new pole room and asked for ideas on affordable mirror solutions. They were considering Craigslist finds or tile-style mirrors.

The author was having trouble purchasing lessons because PayPal kept prompting them to add a debit or credit card, even though they already had a card linked. Several others reported similar issues with PayPal.

Someone asked for recommendations for pole dance studios in Las Vegas, specifying travel dates in June. They were hoping to find a good place to take a class while visiting.

Someone is working on advanced pole moves like star, knee hold and Marley, but struggles to hold them for very long. They are looking for exercises to build strength in their knee pit grip.

Someone posted about selling a used chrome Xpole, stating its condition and price. They mentioned it was already sold but were initially hesitant about a potential buyer.

The author is struggling with a few pole moves: Brass Monkey from shoulder mount, No Handed Cupid, and Cross Knee Release to Ayesha. They are seeking advice on technique and direction for each move.

Someone asked for recommendations for pole dance studios in the Columbus, Ohio area. They were hoping to find a place to take classes.

Someone is looking to buy a stage pole, specifically an X Stage, and came across some square, older models for sale. They asked if anyone has experience with these 'box' stages and their portability/stability.

Someone is travelling to the Los Angeles area at the end of the month and asked for recommendations for pole studios with tall poles, ideally with drop-in options or open pole time. They were flexible with studios offering interesting fusion classes as well.

Someone is experiencing a very noisy and creaky portable pole that is causing vibrations in their building. They are asking whether they should re-set the pole or use a lubricant.

The author asked the community to share their 'how we met' stories, hoping for some heartwarming tales. The thread is full of diverse stories about finding love.

Someone shared photos of their children in an online cute kid photo contest and asked for votes for one of them. They noted one child was enthusiastic about the contest while the other wasn't.

The author shared news that the girlfriend of a person involved in a major news story is a pole dancer. They wondered if the community could offer support, given the unwanted publicity she is receiving.

The author is a beginner struggling with the pole hold in a 30-day program, finding it difficult to lift and hold their weight. They wondered if grip aids might help.

Someone shared a video of a complex pole move, a 'round the world' shoulder mount, and asked about strength training exercises to help achieve it. They were looking for advice on building the necessary strength and technique.

The author is thinking of returning to pole dancing after a break and is asking for recommendations. They are considering purchasing a home pole or finding a studio, particularly in a specific city.

The author posted a picture of a pole move they're trying to learn and asked for the name and any tips. They are able to get into a similar position but are fearful of bending back and losing balance.

Someone shared a story about their partner finally trying pole dancing, but the pole collapsed during their first attempt. They are disappointed that this experience has put their partner off pole for now.

The author shared a humorous story about conceiving a child while pole dancing and wondered if others’ partners experienced a similar lack of continued fascination with their pole practice. They were curious if this was a common experience.

The author is considering switching from an Xpole Lite to a Veena's pole due to dissatisfaction with the Lite's metal stage and difficulty transitioning to floor work. They are concerned about the Veena's pole seeming too inexpensive and potentially unstable.

A member proposed a Skype pole jam for Friday and asked for interested people to share their Skype usernames. The discussion quickly shifted to finding a platform that supports group video calls without a fee.

The author shared a positive experience with customer service regarding a damaged pole and base received in shipping. They received replacement parts and were impressed with the company's responsiveness.