Comming out about pole dance fitness

Autumn Sky · 2013-03-10T17:26:37+00:00

So, I normally only comment on discussions, never have started one, but there has be something that has been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I have been pole dancing for a year, it has become my passion and my life, it is who I am. I enjoy it so much and want to share what I am doing with others, but I forget the prejudices still associated with the sport. I am torn between being who I am and respecting the views of others. For me, it is church related. My life revolves around my Love of the Lord and my passion for the pole. I am either at church or something church related or pole dancing or something pole related. I don't make excuses for either, BUT, sometimes I feel like I can't walk in the freedom to tell everyone what I do and that bothers me. I never wanted to live a life where I felt like I had to have "secrets'. It bothers me and makes me feel like I am doing something wrong. I am trying to find the balance in being who i am and respecting the opinions and not judging others who do not understand. Given the newness of this sport, I imagine their are others dealing with the same issues. Any suggestions? Do I live in total freedom and just let others deal with it, or do I be respectful and educate as opportunity alows?

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monica kay · 6/3/2013
i am halfway out :)