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  • glitterhips

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    May 25, 2010 at 6:23 pm

    im so sorry honey!!! i will keep you and your hubby in my thoughts xoxo

  • Sofija

    Member
    May 29, 2010 at 9:39 pm

    I’m so sorry for you!
    I wish you and your husband strenght!

  • SissyBuns

    Member
    May 30, 2010 at 12:48 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear about your loss but I’m happy to see that you have motivation to get back to poling and I believe that dancing can be very therapeutic and will be good for you. Like Veena and Daya said, take your time. Dance around and if something hurts stop doing it. Go easy and keep your head up girl.

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  • RM2012

    Member
    May 25, 2012 at 7:26 am

    I am so sorry hun. We lost a bub after our daughter, and we lost our eldest son's fraternal twin also. There are no words that can take your pain away, I wish there were. It's something no mother should have to experience <3

    When it comes time to get back into pole, remember to be super kind on yourself. Your body has been through some big changes, take your time and go slowly into it – don't think you should be doing the same level if you are not up to it. You will get there with your dancing. Just remember that physical healing and emotional healing are very different things. Sometimes the pain inside can hold us back physically, and if that happens it's ok. So sorry for your loss x

  • Lyme Lyte

    Member
    May 25, 2012 at 7:31 am

    Exactly what R;2012 said. I too have lost a child before birth and it is hard. Hugs to u!

  • ORGANIC ANGEL

    Member
    May 25, 2012 at 8:05 am

    I am so sorry that you are going through that. That happened to us last year too. We conceived on Dec. 24 2010 and lost our angel 7 weeks later. I did a dance to my bab(as a tribute)y and I recorded that one…(I'll try to find it to post here)Than about 8 weeks later, we conceived again and our baby was due on December 24! We had our precious miracle baby on Dec. 22, 2011.

    Getting back to pole just be kind to yourself. Allow yourself time to heal. Allow yourself to grieve and to get through it in your own time. When I got pregnant the second time, I still poled but I did not do any ab work. It just "felt wrong". I also didn't do any moves that I felt uncomfy with and I stopped completely at 30 weeks. Just listen to yourself and your body. In the first pregnancy, my equilibrium felt odd-I couldn't even dance in heels. The second time around, I felt fine.

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