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  • Veena

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    January 14, 2026 at 7:22 pm in reply to: 30-day AB Challenge – 2026

    That’s good!

  • Veena

    Administrator
    January 14, 2026 at 7:21 pm in reply to: 30-day AB Challenge – 2026

    How’s every one doing so far? I took days off while my oldest son was visiting from Vegas. We did some beach time and paddle boarding. I’m planning on getting back to the challenge tomorrow.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    January 5, 2026 at 10:14 pm in reply to: 30-day AB Challenge – 2026

    Nice! 😊

  • Veena

    Administrator
    January 5, 2026 at 3:30 pm in reply to: 30-day AB Challenge – 2026

    Friendly accountability check! It’s ok if you’re on a different day.

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  • Veena

    Administrator
    January 4, 2026 at 12:50 am in reply to: 30-day AB Challenge – 2026

    Sweet! 🍭

  • Veena

    Administrator
    January 2, 2026 at 10:00 pm in reply to: 30-day AB Challenge – 2026

    Oh my gosh! Yes, please take it slow. Congrats on the little ones!!!!!!

    I’m going to message you privately so we can keep an on going conversation about this.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    January 2, 2026 at 9:50 pm in reply to: 30-day AB Challenge – 2026

    Ok then I wouldn’t suggest doing this challenge yet, you can always try it later on but for now it’s wise to address the diastasis recti first.

    Would you like some guidance on this?

  • Veena

    Administrator
    January 2, 2026 at 6:53 pm in reply to: 30-day AB Challenge – 2026

    Hi 👋 welcome! If you did not have any abdominal separation, all of the exercise exercises should be OK but listen to your body. If you had abdominal separation, let me know and I’ll provide alternatives.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    January 1, 2026 at 4:40 pm in reply to: 30-day AB Challenge – 2026

    Hey, hey 👋 welcome

  • Veena

    Administrator
    December 31, 2025 at 9:39 pm in reply to: Happy Anniversary Veena and Webmaster!!

    Thank you and happy birthday! 🎂

  • Veena

    Administrator
    December 19, 2025 at 12:36 am in reply to: Training schedule

    Hello and welcome. 🙂

    As a total beginner start with the 30 day take off program. You don’t have to plan anything, I’ve done all the planning for you so all you need to do is start with day one.

    If you want to know what is coming the next day, feel free to look ahead so you can plan your schedule. You’ll find the duration at the top of every description so you’ll know how much time is required for that day.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    December 9, 2025 at 6:29 pm in reply to: Perimenopause Pole Dancer Support Group

    Thank you! xoxox Happy to have you here.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    December 9, 2025 at 5:33 pm in reply to: Perimenopause Pole Dancer Support Group

    Welcome! Thank you for sharing.

    This transformation is a wild ride for sure, if you have any tips or things that have worked for you feel free to share.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    December 8, 2025 at 7:14 pm in reply to: Pole diameter and finish questions answered

    You’re welcome! I’d love to know what pole you decide on.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    December 5, 2025 at 9:55 pm in reply to: Pole diameter and finish questions answered

    I have the xpole warmer, and any steamer will do, you can even use an iron on steam. This video explains how to do it.

    Every pole if you buy from a quality brand like xpole will last a very long time regardless of finish. I wouldn’t stress over longevity. Brass requires maintenance like this so if you don’t want to polish don’t buy brass.

    You ONLY need grip aid if you need grip aid, which you wont know until you start practicing pole. I only need grip aid if I’m dancing in cool temps and if it’s very dry. Like when I use to live in Las Vegas. In Florida I don’t use any grip aid.

    Any finish could be affected by ointment, apply the night before pole dancing or far in advance if you’re worried. Anything that is oil based will cause you to slip when applied close to practice. You will have to see how your ointment works with your pole, it’s not something that can be answered right away.

    Get a 40 because you’re on the shorter side with smaller hands. I think it would make poling at home more pleasant as the bigger the diameter the longer it can take to develop your grip strength for that size.

    Yes, you can go between sizes with no problem. Somethings like I mentioned in the video, stalls, flips, and drop are more comfortable on lager pole but at your size 40 would still be a good fit. If you were taller like me I might suggest a 45. But those skill take years to build up to and most people tend to buy more than one pole if they’re poling long enough.

    Thigh gap doesn’t matter.

    I wouldn’t stress too much, you can alway re-sell it and buy something else.

    Watch the RANTS I shared above, I think it will answer some questions for you and put thing into perspective.

  • Veena

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    December 5, 2025 at 8:46 pm in reply to: Pole diameter and finish questions answered

    I just started making some Christmas cookies. I will reply back with answers later on. ☺️

  • Veena

    Administrator
    November 29, 2025 at 4:40 pm in reply to: How long to get to advanced level (starting from 0)?

    You’re welcome ☺️

  • Veena

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    November 28, 2025 at 10:08 pm in reply to: How long to get to advanced level (starting from 0)?

    Great info, thank you!

  • Veena

    Administrator
    November 28, 2025 at 10:08 pm in reply to: How long to get to advanced level (starting from 0)?

    Hello and welcome! It’s actually a great question and I’m glad you asked. I hope to see you around 🙂

    I have two answers for ya.

    • The first is just fact: There are 216 days of training if you start with the 30-day take off program, which is where I prefer new and newish dancers start. Now that’s assuming you don’t miss any days, and you can nail every trick the first time. It also doesn’t include any extra training you might want to do like, dancing in heels program, spinning pole program, and flexibility training, learning floor work and so on.
    • The second answer: There’s no timeline for learning. I have designed my programs to allow average folks with busy lives to come and go, or stop and start as needed. This might mean that some students enjoy the beginner level content for years and years because their lives are so busy they stop and start often. I do have plenty of members who enjoy being a dedicated pole dancer and do complete all levels and extra programs. It’s all up the the individual and I’m here to support whichever journey you want to take.

    This IG video talks about the difference between a motivated pole dancer and dedicated.

    You might find this video interesting as a newer pole dancer too.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    November 23, 2025 at 12:10 am in reply to: Perimenopause Pole Dancer Support Group

    Hello, it’s nice to meet you and thank you for sharing your peri journey with us! xoxo

  • Veena

    Administrator
    November 15, 2025 at 2:04 pm in reply to: Knee strengthening/exercises?

    Yes! Here are the muscles you’ll want to target:

    • Quads
    • Hamstrings
    • Gastrocnemius (calf)
    • Popliteus
    • Sartoris
    • Gracilis

    Here are some routines I have for these areas:

    Stop the micro bend routine

    Yoga block lower body routine

    Hips and pelvis routine

    Glutes and legs workout

    Foot and ankle strength routine

    Individual exercises:

    Leg hook crunch

    Side leg hook crunch

    Rear leg hook crunch

    Booty squeeze

    Clamshells

    Soleus raises

    Let me know if you have questions.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    October 23, 2025 at 3:06 pm in reply to: Halloween Pole Choreography and photo ideas!

    Yay! I hope you get a chance to share some of your spooky fun too.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    October 12, 2025 at 4:56 pm in reply to: Webmaster’s Corner – It’s The Little Things – New Things On The Horizon

    Thank you, thank you for all you’ve done for myself and our members. We wouldn’t have any of this without you! Teamwork makes the dream work. xoxox

  • Veena

    Administrator
    October 3, 2025 at 1:10 pm in reply to: Perimenopause Pole Dancer Support Group

    Happy Friday! Today I thought I’d share foods that have helped me so far.

      • Sauerkraut and Kimchi
      • Tofu
      • Bone Broth protein powder (pure) by Ancient Nutrition
      • Lentils

      Do you any foods that have been a game changer for you?

    • Veena

      Administrator
      October 1, 2025 at 6:33 pm in reply to: Perimenopause Pole Dancer Support Group

      Here’s a book a friend shared with me. The Menopause Manifesto https://amzn.to/4nsYghd

      I’ve not had a chance to read it.

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