pole-twista
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i have never "hooped" and had no idea so many of you ladies were into it. do you use weighted hoops or just reg ones from kids stores? where do you find weighted hoops? are there dvds to teach you? i could never hoop. only around my neck, ankle, or wrist, but never at my waist. this sounds like fun and a great workout!
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omg! atleast no one got hurt. after that everything else is minor. even if it costs alot (which i hope it doesnt) bottom line if no ones dead or seriously injured its a good day. had this happen on my peekaboo piece of shit. scared the hell out of myself and was a little hurt but was soooo thankful i hadnt been trying to invert.
i hope it all works out and really glad to hear your ok. we ladies gotta be careful! we wanted lovely lady lumps not humps and bumps from falling! lol https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_queen.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/alien.gif -
omg thats great! ya i was def planning on doing poling first so we dont have to worry about how much we drink after that. im not a fan of getting sick drunk so will have to stick to beer and small sips but cant wait to try!
any games/party ideas ect halloween inspired or not would be great. can only dance and catch up for so long and than its like wheres the truth or dare , or some other game i can get myself in trouble with.. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_twisted.gif
thanks for writting out the game for me!!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_sunny.gif -
as much as it would be amazing to have pole and wii (2 of my faves) together, i just dont see it happening. i think its too much of a liability ect.
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i have many pole dvds now and the 2 i would recommend to anyone are jamillas series (she is excellent) and vertical dance (w kt) really covers alot of moves and breaks things down well w tips.
leigh ann and bobbis dvds are more for the experienced pole dancer looking for combo ideas ect.
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omg that was so funny and yet so true! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif
when i look at myself i dont think i see myself as a whole but rather in parts and flaws (my flat butt and flabby belly ect) which is why though dying to wear a bikini in 1 of my new vids, just won’t. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_redface.gif
my bf hardly ever calls me by name. always calls me "beautiful" yet i hardly feel that way. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif i am always telling other women how beautiful and sexy and amazing they are https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_queen.gif but cant seem to say it to myself, https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_arrow.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_pale.gif or rather i say it to myself but it’s like saying to myself my tap water is hot pink. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_confused.gif
i can say it but i don’t believe it. with basically all my vids (some more than others ) i think i look OK as doing them but than when i bother to take a glance once there posted i think wow.. not good.. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_thumbdown.gif
i will say this however, as much as i may pull myself apart sometimes i WILL NOT tolerate being disrespected or put down by ANYONE else NO MATTER WHAT.
i let 2 ex-boyfriends (one when i was only 15, the other 20) tell me that i looked like a "whore" and other awful things any time i made an attempt to look pretty or girly. they were physically and mentally busive bc they were scared insecure little boys in a mans body. (the guy i dated for over a year when i was 15 was 18 when met) i couldnt even tuck my shirt in bc my breasts might have some shape under my shirt that way! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_eek.gif as hard as things were for me during those years, i wouldnt trade them in bc it made me super diligent about not letting others put me down or make me feel less than what i am. now any negativity thrown at me gets used as fuel for the fire that keeps me working hard, dreaming big, and loving the good people in my life including ME!
sorry for my famously long posts, but wanted to share.. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_confused.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_queen.gif -
pole-twista
MemberOctober 10, 2009 at 8:37 pm in reply to: Clips from J.C.’s 1st Real Lesson w/ Jessalynnaww dont worry jungle.. i live the same way (more or less..cant say havent uh.."had fun"..in awhile https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_king.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_queen.gif , but do basically work and chill at home. )
it can be depressing and lonely https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cry.gif and it can be liberating, and exciting.. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cool.gif
just depends https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheese.gif
i have learned the hard way it is soooooo much better than to be "alone" than surrounded with people who dont deserve your time or energy (never mind your love and kindness).. used to always be out or have people over and it was fun , but as i have gotten older and hopefully wiser, i think quality is so much more important than quanity. i may have a small fraction of the "friends" i once had, but the few that i really consider friends now are people i would trust alone in my house, who i can confidently tell my secrets and dreams to, who are truly there for me. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_sunny.gif
you are one of the sweetest people i have ever exchanged words with and anyone who doesnt have you in there life on some level is missing something great. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cat.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_king.gif
be proud that despite having time on your hands and often being alone, you are not only not getting into self-destructive habits like so many others, you are using your time in a productive healthy way. all that practice time is paying off big time. you look great and your doing moves i am not even near ( and i have been doing this for a year and a half) https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif
and dont forget you always have your Veena Family
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speaking of blogs, know i did a little blogging (havent been consistent) and think there were some comments but couldnt view them https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_confused.gif … i am going to try again later when have a little more time but just wanted to say i would never ignore anyone so if you have ever left a comment or Q somewhere for me and i didnt respond, i promise it wasnt on purpouse.. i swear! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_tongue.gif
i am going to see if i can fix the blog thing and as far as vid comments i havent posted a vid in like 6 months cause been 1 problem after another w laptop/camera cables, but should be posting back logged stuff this week (w any luck at all) so like some others said if you have an actual question you want the person to answer might be easier to leave it on the persons wall. i will too as sometimes i’ll ask about a move or name of a song, and the person probably responded but i forget like 10mins after posting who’s vid i just commented on and wich i asked questions… whew..
to sum up a too long post i am just saying any comments / questions i get i respond to and if i dont i didnt see it. think thats the case w most people. ok..going to stop typing now.. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_geek.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif -
thanks! did it tonight (split grip) and felt pretty comfortable so will keep trying to hold for longer and longer. this is a toughie! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_scratch.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_geek.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
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great q! i always reply to comments but dont expect the person togo back to see. i do it just in case they do though. sometimes i will ask a question and than forget about it so i never revist the comment part of videos. if there ever is A feature we get i will keep up w best as i can. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/alien.gif
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we know you’ll rock it!!!!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_queen.gif
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so getting closer to the party night and was just seeing if anyone had any party games/ideas to share
can be drinking games, pole ideas, or just regular party games
anything would be appreciated
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ASTOUNDING> BREATHTAKING< INCREDIBLE….wow.. did i just see that?? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_batman.gif
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i dont know theres any hope for me. i just dont have the booty that bounces, claps, and wiggles https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif
but if there are any tutorials, advice, magic get a booty pill, please pass it along https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/bom.gif
i can booty pop a LITTLE. barely even noticable and i would LOVE to get some more options of things to do w the booty i do have. i think someone said think of dorothy in wizard of oz clicking her heels together. things shake, but not my butt so much https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_redface.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif -
almost got it today but bottom arm (which i believe is suppouse to stay straight bends! cant sem to keep bottom arm straight! did the split grip aysha (from invert) today so guess will just have to build on that
any tips for jacknifing? i think these mounts are so impressive and would love to get 1 of them (any. cw, hs, se) https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_geek.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_geek.gif
thanks for all the advice ladies! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif -
was wandering if its easier to jacknife or just do a regular handspring. this balance at the top thing seems to be really throwing me https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_scratch.gif
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thats so funny bc i also seem to feel liike the split grip is easier. i have done it briefly a few times. i know its suppouse to be the harder but i guess its personal preferance. well always looking for more tips so anything you got that you think might help would be appreciated https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/bom.gif
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honey you shouldn’t waste not 1 more second worrying about any of this. this is got to be one of the most supportive and non-judgemental, encouraging, kind, ect group of people you can find in 1 place like this. if you need encouragment take a look at some of my vids! my hair is a disaster in some, in others you get to see the toll too much pizza and not enough exersise has taken on my stomach..oh the list just goes on, but i know the only person who is focusing on the things that make me uncomfortable in any given video, is me. i did a video not long ago bc i was feeling soo unsexy or graceful so made a point not to focus on the things i didnt like. i forced myself to put on a dress and heels and acknowledge all the things i like about the way i look and feel. like my eye color and strong calves. before you start the video get yourself in the right frame of mind. some peoplelike t o come up w a stage name/personality. some peole feel silly doing this so try and see. if you think you’d like to try this i would suggest a name that makes you feel sexy or powerful.. whatever’s going to make you feel confident. if your a little on the shy side you can play into that w a sweet and bashful in a sexy way personality. you could do the whole innocent girl next door or librarin.. or you could use this as a chance to explore a whole other side of you. i go with how i feel at the time and music of course plays a role. pick a song that you really feel. i like music from back in the day like billie holiday and james brown but usually to practice its rock or rap. also dress in a way that allows you to move freeky and that your not going to have to constanly fuss with as this will be distracting to dancer and viewer (in my BED video my skirt and top were driving me crazy and it took some focus of what i was doing). sorry to make this so super long but 1 more thing.. lighting. go with whatever makes you feel beautiful. hope this helps.
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pole-twista
MemberOctober 6, 2009 at 6:40 pm in reply to: Clips from J.C.’s 1st Real Lesson w/ Jessalynndamn you are good!!!! if you weren’t such a sweetheart i’d be jealous! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_twisted.gif
you work hard and practice alot and it really shows! amazing job! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif -
i have been thinking about this alot and was wandering if anyone would be intrested in doing a video for caramel dlite? i was first thinking we could all dance to " I will remember you", but think soince we all had individual feelings to express maybe we could judst choose a song that you feel honors her life, or expresses your feelings. just an idea. io am planning on doing one tonight and if next week goes according to plan will (FINALLY) be posting all these vids i have stock piled along with this. just an idea…
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thanks fdor posting a link to the original post. i cant believe how much someone i never saw in person could affect me (and i’m sure lots of others) so much… evertime i come across these posts my eyes well up. if i am this upset, i cant imagine what her friends and family are going through… i just don’t understand..i just wish this had been a cruel joke.
GOODBYE CARAMEL DLITE. YOU TRULY WERE A DELIGHT AND WILL BE MISSED BY ALL THOSE WHO KNEW YOU.. NO MATTER HOW BRIEFLY.. YOU WERE AN AMAZING PERSON AND BROUGHT SO MUCH BEAUTY AND KINDNESS TO THIS WORLD. WE LOVE YOU.
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pole-twista
MemberOctober 6, 2009 at 12:56 am in reply to: Friends of CARAMEL_DLITE ??? please readthis is just too surreal and sad… you know she was an amazing, bright, funny, talented, kind, sweet, beautiful woman. she had to have been to bring to peoples eyes who never even met her (in person)
i feel like such an idiot bc cant think of something to say or do… just so hard to accept this as a truth. she will be in my prayers. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_shaking.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cry.gif -
OMG. i was just shocked 2 words into this post about caramel delight!!!!!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_eek.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cry.gif
i had no idea! i am just so shocked and saddened… https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_pale.gif
i just don’t even know what to say…
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lol. no thanks for the concern, but drinking after poling. starting upstairs with pole for that very reason. (not saying people cant have A beer or A shot before poling, but if i suspect anyone of being intoxocated, no pole for them. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_ncool.gif
no one coming can invert, so spins only too.
i have been pretty buzzed on the pole a few times, but i know enough not to have it on spinny or try to invert (obviously balance/strength is off) and have never got sick, but find it takes much more effort to do spins ect.
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