SissyBuns
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OMG!!!! I was so thinking of doing a Michael dance anyway! Oh, please please please! LOL
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That was so cool! The most creative June challenge I’ve seen!
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I know I’m looking forward to seeing the video of these crappy poles. I want to see what she’s trying to pass off as a pole studio.
I can’t believe this woman wouldn’t invest an real quality poles for her students to work on nor take the time to study up on her craft before attempting to share it with others.
I’m glad you’re not staying with that place. The only good thing that would have come out of it is maybe you could let the customers know that this is not how it’s supposed to be so they won’t quit poling forever.
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I’m so sorry to hear your frustration https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif I hope you’re able to get it installed eventually (even though I really want to say don’t even waste your time on it) but I know the exact boat that you’re in because I did the exact same thing. I started with the Flirty Girl and got a flirty hole in my cieling, then a Carmen Electra/Pole Aerobics pole. After realizing I had wasted my money on them I had to wait until I could get my xpole….and those two poles just sat in my closet…mocking me….LOL.
Hopefully you’ll be able to get it up if you’re going to still use it. I know how it feels when you just wanna pole and you can’t https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif .
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Forgive the pictures, they’re all off centered but you get the general idea.
This is my "Hurray I’m in the Army now let’s go to some random tattoo shop and get some tats!" tattoo….I think it looks pretty crappy now but it’s symbolic of my life changing.
http://i894.photobucket.com/albums/ac149/sissybuns/DSCF8542-1.jpg
Another Army tattoo but this time with some meaning. It means Eternal Friendship and myself and my two sisters all have it (different areas) because we were raised to take care of eachother and thats what we have done. We’re family, sisters, and best friends forever.
http://i894.photobucket.com/albums/ac149/sissybuns/DSCF8545.jpg
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I was feeling like too much of a newbie call myself a pole dancer, but untamedshrew’s criteria just put me in my place. I love showing off those bruises, and I can’t hear a song without thinking about how it would flow on the pole. Now I don’t feel like such a poser! Thanks friends!
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Ooooooo….I thought webmaster just deleted my videos because he didn’t like them….
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Ok I feel I have to say something here due to that fact that I do let my 12 yr old step-daughter pole. I even posted videos of her on here so everyone could see. ********* has always been into gymnastics , so learning some tricks was right up her alley.
I am teaching her the tricks only, there is no dancing. I did explain to her that she cant go around and brag to her friends that there is a dance pole in our home, because they wont understand what she is learning and also take it the wrong way. She did tell me that she mention to one of her friends what they thought about pole dancing , her friends replied that is was slutty. Ever since then that friend hasnt spoke to her, and ********* only asked a question she didnt say she was learning to do it. One night ********* stayed over a friends name Coolens house, well she dicided to tell her friend and her friends mother Karen. The next day Karen came over , and wanted to see the pole, and she thought is was awesome. She let her daughter on it , and Karen even came back for a few lessons. Karen looked at it like I do , I am not teaching her to dance sexual, I am teaching her the gymnastic part of it , and its also keep her fit. Funny but the girls ever came up with a code name for the pole..which is flower, so they can talk about it and no one will know.
When I am practricing with ********* , I dont dance around the pole, its all tricks. She does sit with me from time to time and watch videos , but i limit on what she can see. She never saw me dancing in heels with the pole, which i dont do it often anyway. If i decide to it will be when the children are not home, but that is me.
********* has a good head on her shoulders, straight "A" student , and very mature . She is 12 going on 21….lol So far she is having blast with learning and would love to compete one day.
I just have to add this, one night ********* was practicing with out me. I have a webcam hooked up to my ceiling facing the pole. I had the webcam on without her knowing , and i was watching from the other room on another pc . I just wanted to see if she woud dance or wiggle around the pole.. well she didnt. It just made me feel good that she is taking the pole seriously as a verticle gymnastic.RaRa your step daughter does sound like she has a good head on her shoulders and that’s a great thing. I can’t always say the same for my daughter though LOL. We’re working on her decision making because she has a bad habit of making the wrong decisions and being easily influenced by others. If she were more mature for her age I probably wouldn’t worry so much.
I decided to let her fool around with it and learn a spin or two (I even posted a video of her and my other two poling) because I’m honestly just happen she’s doing something physical LOL. She ses me do it and she recognizes the athletic ability that’s required for it. She’s no dummy and with the way kids are now adays she is well aware that poles are used for stripping too, but I’ve always wanted my kids to be open minded and not judge so what better way to start than with a pole dancing mama? -
I don’t have kids, so I guess I’m giving the "kid" perspective. My parents were always really open and honest with me and didn’t go out of their way to hide adult things from me, which I totally appreciate as an adult. I think if you’re honest with her about the pros and cons of pole dancing then she can make an informed choice on her own. Nothing is worse than making something seem taboo or forbidden, because then kids are definitely gonna want to do it! 13 is also a pretty delicate age, and I think anything that lets her embrace her body and feel good in her skin has to be a good thing. Plus there is nothing sexy about learning to do tricks, it’s hard work! Although it must be scary as a mom to see your teenager interested in something that may cause her grief or give other people the wrong idea. Then again, she sees you doing it and feeling good and I think it’s really sweet that she wants to share a hobby with you. You couldn’t pay me to hang out with my mom when I was 13!
Sidenote: When I was a little kid, my dad caught me twirling around the swingset poles and singing "Girls, Girls, Girls" at the playground! That’s what you get for letting your four year old watch too much MTV, but I don’t think I turned out so bad! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
That’s one of my worries is that the other kids will give her grief about it. It’s hard enough for me to defend my own "pole habit" and I’m an adult dealing with other adults…who you think would have more open minds right? Not!
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I think it’d be nice to have a section where we can kind of keep a running blog as we all go on through our pole (and life) journeys or maybe just a section in a forum where we can update our own thread daily and people can comment and converse and follow one another while getting to know eachother better too. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
Basically I just want a place where I can ramble on excessively about myself… https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_thumleft.gif
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Damn Flirty Girl strikes again!
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You maybe a pole dancer if you go out of town and actually miss your pole while you’re gone https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif
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Good for you!!! You’re gonna love it! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif
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It’s working okay for me….no one is in there but the room loads https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
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Sissy…you are too funny! you need to come to Charlotte and hang out!! I demand it! hahahaha https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
LOL, I’ll start making plans! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
