SissyBuns
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I was feeling like too much of a newbie call myself a pole dancer, but untamedshrew’s criteria just put me in my place. I love showing off those bruises, and I can’t hear a song without thinking about how it would flow on the pole. Now I don’t feel like such a poser! Thanks friends!
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Ooooooo….I thought webmaster just deleted my videos because he didn’t like them….
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Ok I feel I have to say something here due to that fact that I do let my 12 yr old step-daughter pole. I even posted videos of her on here so everyone could see. ********* has always been into gymnastics , so learning some tricks was right up her alley.
I am teaching her the tricks only, there is no dancing. I did explain to her that she cant go around and brag to her friends that there is a dance pole in our home, because they wont understand what she is learning and also take it the wrong way. She did tell me that she mention to one of her friends what they thought about pole dancing , her friends replied that is was slutty. Ever since then that friend hasnt spoke to her, and ********* only asked a question she didnt say she was learning to do it. One night ********* stayed over a friends name Coolens house, well she dicided to tell her friend and her friends mother Karen. The next day Karen came over , and wanted to see the pole, and she thought is was awesome. She let her daughter on it , and Karen even came back for a few lessons. Karen looked at it like I do , I am not teaching her to dance sexual, I am teaching her the gymnastic part of it , and its also keep her fit. Funny but the girls ever came up with a code name for the pole..which is flower, so they can talk about it and no one will know.
When I am practricing with ********* , I dont dance around the pole, its all tricks. She does sit with me from time to time and watch videos , but i limit on what she can see. She never saw me dancing in heels with the pole, which i dont do it often anyway. If i decide to it will be when the children are not home, but that is me.
********* has a good head on her shoulders, straight "A" student , and very mature . She is 12 going on 21….lol So far she is having blast with learning and would love to compete one day.
I just have to add this, one night ********* was practicing with out me. I have a webcam hooked up to my ceiling facing the pole. I had the webcam on without her knowing , and i was watching from the other room on another pc . I just wanted to see if she woud dance or wiggle around the pole.. well she didnt. It just made me feel good that she is taking the pole seriously as a verticle gymnastic.RaRa your step daughter does sound like she has a good head on her shoulders and that’s a great thing. I can’t always say the same for my daughter though LOL. We’re working on her decision making because she has a bad habit of making the wrong decisions and being easily influenced by others. If she were more mature for her age I probably wouldn’t worry so much.
I decided to let her fool around with it and learn a spin or two (I even posted a video of her and my other two poling) because I’m honestly just happen she’s doing something physical LOL. She ses me do it and she recognizes the athletic ability that’s required for it. She’s no dummy and with the way kids are now adays she is well aware that poles are used for stripping too, but I’ve always wanted my kids to be open minded and not judge so what better way to start than with a pole dancing mama? -
I don’t have kids, so I guess I’m giving the "kid" perspective. My parents were always really open and honest with me and didn’t go out of their way to hide adult things from me, which I totally appreciate as an adult. I think if you’re honest with her about the pros and cons of pole dancing then she can make an informed choice on her own. Nothing is worse than making something seem taboo or forbidden, because then kids are definitely gonna want to do it! 13 is also a pretty delicate age, and I think anything that lets her embrace her body and feel good in her skin has to be a good thing. Plus there is nothing sexy about learning to do tricks, it’s hard work! Although it must be scary as a mom to see your teenager interested in something that may cause her grief or give other people the wrong idea. Then again, she sees you doing it and feeling good and I think it’s really sweet that she wants to share a hobby with you. You couldn’t pay me to hang out with my mom when I was 13!
Sidenote: When I was a little kid, my dad caught me twirling around the swingset poles and singing "Girls, Girls, Girls" at the playground! That’s what you get for letting your four year old watch too much MTV, but I don’t think I turned out so bad! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
That’s one of my worries is that the other kids will give her grief about it. It’s hard enough for me to defend my own "pole habit" and I’m an adult dealing with other adults…who you think would have more open minds right? Not!
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I think it’d be nice to have a section where we can kind of keep a running blog as we all go on through our pole (and life) journeys or maybe just a section in a forum where we can update our own thread daily and people can comment and converse and follow one another while getting to know eachother better too. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
Basically I just want a place where I can ramble on excessively about myself… https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_thumleft.gif
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Damn Flirty Girl strikes again!
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You maybe a pole dancer if you go out of town and actually miss your pole while you’re gone https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif
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Good for you!!! You’re gonna love it! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif
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It’s working okay for me….no one is in there but the room loads https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
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Sissy…you are too funny! you need to come to Charlotte and hang out!! I demand it! hahahaha https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
LOL, I’ll start making plans! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
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You may be a pole dancer if in the airport on the way to your honeymoon you log on to StudioVeena at an internet kiosk and proceed to watch pole dancing videos regardless of who’s around!!!!!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif
Classic! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif
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I can only imagine how scary that was! But you smiled the whole time and looked like you weren’t scared to death, LOL. Good job!
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I so made this into a Facebook group… hehe. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif You need to add me!
You may be a pole dancer if you go to look at a new house that’s perfect in every way….except for it’s extremely high cielings…and because of that, you turn your nose up at it. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_confused.gif
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Oh my garsh! I didn’t know you were going on your honeymoon! I was just chatting with you lastnight and I didn’t give you well wishes. Well here they are…
Have fun and lots of romance! ……and by romance I mean sex https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
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You may be a pole dancer if you have to schedule life events (weddings, balls) around poling so you won’t be bruised in pictures.
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You may be a pole dancer if you’re kids are so familiar with pole moves from watching you watch youtube obsessivley that they can critique you pretty well when you’re practicing…
"Mommy you should keep your back straighter when you do that" https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif
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I think you should call yourself a pole dancer, just do your reverse grab, (as awkward as you might think it is, it’s NOT btw), and if they say….oh that’s easy, have them try to do it, then they’ll know you are a pole dancer.
I already had this experience, a friend of mine who left a year ago for her home country, just recently came back one month ago, we were hanging out at my apartment, she asked if I tried to dance around that pole, LOL, I told her no, I don’t try, I do, ’cause I’m a pole dancer, so I inverted for her and she went…."I think I can do that", hey, it was funny to see her kick back and forth and barely getting her legs to her chest for 15 minutes….LOL, and now she knows, I AM a pole dancer. HA!.Thats exactly the type of story I was looking for….LOL.
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haha…pole model..that’s cute! Thanks Sissy! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif
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I’m chilling out in chat right now….alone…
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hi sissy!
i can´t wait to see what kind of answers you get to this post! i feel exactly the same way! i´m totally obsessed and go on for hours talking ( https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_puke_r.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_puke_r.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_puke_r.gif )about the pole to anyone who will listen ,or at least pretend to listen…lol
but i cant really do much yet besides a few spins and pole sitting…
are we poledancers? or maybe almost pole dancers, gonnabe poledancers…big hug https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_flower.gif frida https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_flower.gif
Maybe Poledancer wannabes or Poledancers in training?
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Alrighty, being a Dermatology nurse I have to chime in here….unfortunately I’m a beginner pole dancer so I can’t speak much on that point but I do know that stretch marks, actual authentic stretch marks do not "go away" over time. They’re pretty much permanent. So if you are seeing lines after poling maybe it’s some type of temporary hyperpigmentation from the friction of the pole? Idk, just guessing here.
I really, really hope that they go away because I loooove poling and I haaaaaate stretch marks, I have enough from dropping babies. I don’t want anymore from dancing!
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I definitely dance around the pole…actually at my level that’s most of what I do LOL.
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hello toccara. thanks for the welcome. i’m still patiently awaiting my pole but the suspense is killing me. i just want to get it so i can start practicing. who would’ve thought that i’d be sooooo ecstatic to recieve a pole. lol. i’ve finally started my diet today and am hoping to maintain the will power for a weightloss of about 25 pounds and tone up. it’s a battle but my goal is to lose it by september, which is when my birthday is. and you are absolutely right! when the pounds start dropping you feel like a million bucks. it’s a wonderful accomplishment. i know because i’ve been there and done it before after my first son was born. how are you doing on your weight loss routine so far?
WEll im still in my first month, and have lost 12 pounds and 4 inches so far! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif I had to take a 3 day break cuz i was pushing myself a little too hard, but ive managed not to gain anything during that time. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_thumleft.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_thumright.gif I was thinking that too, how funny it was that i want a pole so dog on bad https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif My goal is to lose 30-40 pounds, and Im trying to do it in small chunks, goal of 10 lbs per month. That helps me a lot cuz when I see how far AWAY i am from the total 30-40 lb goal i get discouraged but giving smaller numbers keeps me from getting down. lol. Its funny how we gotta trick our minds to do things, lol.
Dang Toccara, 10 lbs a month seems like a lot. Well I guess, if you lose 1-3 lbs a week it’s possible in a healthy way but I have to ask…how are you doing it? What are you eating and are you eating often?
Sorry for the intrusive questions but I’m a tad bit obsessed with people losing weight in a healthy way and not an extreme faddish way, because that doesn’t tend to last. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif
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Hi little dreams! Im also new to poling, and have just recently started my strength training and weight loss routine. It is definately hard, but once you start seeing results it feels sooo good! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif Im waiting on my pole as well, well waiting on the money to purchase it. But i cant wait to get it to be a part of my routine. Its gonna be great! You’re gonna love it! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_sunny.gif
hello toccara. thanks for the welcome. i’m still patiently awaiting my pole but the suspense is killing me. i just want to get it so i can start practicing. who would’ve thought that i’d be sooooo ecstatic to recieve a pole. lol. i’ve finally started my diet today and am hoping to maintain the will power for a weightloss of about 25 pounds and tone up. it’s a battle but my goal is to lose it by september, which is when my birthday is. and you are absolutely right! when the pounds start dropping you feel like a million bucks. it’s a wonderful accomplishment. i know because i’ve been there and done it before after my first son was born. how are you doing on your weight loss routine so far?
Girl please, when I was waiting for my pole I was a hot mess. My husband had so many jokes for me because I was like a little kid waiting for a toy and when I got it, it was on! LOL….I’m excited for you! I can’t wait for you to get it!
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Rox you’re the shit. I loved it. If you’re trying to make yourself dance more I can see why. It’s because your dancing rules! Sexy, sensual….did I mention sexy?
Thanks for being a pole model.
Get it? Like role model…except of pole? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif
Pretty clever eh? Right? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cry.gif
