PoleSkivvies
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You are interesting beyond belief, girl!!! Thank you!
Email me at mailto:jennifer@poleskivvies.com so I can email you the questions – nothing daunting, I promise! I try to give everyone who is willing to be interviewed some good link love, so if you have a site or something you want to let people know about, be sure to tell me.
P.S. Just sent you a PM … https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
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Hi Buterflii – Seems I missed your post, but I’m glad you’re okay. And I’m glad you get tested regularly!
And Glitter – did you just maybe have too-wild sex? Your cervix changes position at different times in your cycle – higher up when you’re about to ovulate, lower down when you’re not. I’m not sure how birth control would affect that. But it could just be your cervix was at an unusual angle (they tilt, too!) and didn’t go well with your position. That happens sometimes. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
Jennifer
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(I tried to post earlier but it wouldn’t upload. So this is a little out of synch with the thread, but mainly still applies.)
Hi Glitter –
First of all, having an STD does NOT mean you’re promiscuous. And it’s not a bad thing, although it gets a really harsh rep societally. The fact is people can get STDs the first time they have sex, even if they’ve only been with one person. So, please, don’t confuse getting sick with a judgment on who you are. You rock; your cervix/vagina is simply sick. She needs some care and compassion, that’s all.
FYI – my man has two STDs (HPV and herpes). He’s had a third the partners I’ve had, but that’s the way life goes. It doesn’t mean I love him any less or find him any less hot or think any less of him. We just know to be careful during flare-ups. Once I mentioned this to my friends – even long-term friends I’d always spoken to about sex – I was amazed how many of them had STDs, or how many of their long-term partners did. And by the time you’re my age – 41 – if you’ve been single a long time, the odds are you’ve encountered something. So, again, this is not about you. It’s about your cervix.
So, let’s talk about what she needs. And the first thing, obviously, is some medical help. Which you’ve already arranged to get, so that’s fantastic.
As for your man thinking you’re naughty or gross or a slut. If he thinks that, LEAVE HIM. Simple as that. If he can’t deal with the real world of sex, he shouldn’t be having it. Least of all with our cherished Glitter. And he can get himself to a free clinic for some tests, for god’s sake – it is just as likely he gave something to you, if it is an STD. People, and guys especially, can carry STDs without any symptoms, for years. Happens all the time.
Keep us posted about your health, girl. And know we’re all pulling for you. Just remember: you are wonderful and beautiful and delightful and no illness of any kind will ever change that.
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I mean we all look at sexy swimmers etc secretly when the olympics is on right?
You are so cute to say that! And, yes, we do. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
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There is definitely something special about this forum. I learned about it from Kittyclimber and started coming more often for the chats and the great group of people. I don’t know what it is, but it seems there’s an especially warm feel to this forum. Lots are friendly, but this seems like a more tightly-knit group. Plus Veena posts some really good articles – loved the one on pole quality!
We love you, Veena!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOOOOOUUUUU!!
(And many more!!!)
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What a fun thread to find – because I just went to my first strip club this weekend. I loved it! The girls were GORGEOUS, but super nice. I was there for Alena’s performance, but the show time had changed, so I wound up there an hour earlier than needed, the only woman not working in the room. They were great! One dancer came and spoke with me and made me feel totally comfortable. And I just loved the dancing. I sat there smiling and applauding like the idiot I am, but, hell, if someone is on stage, the audience should be paying attention – and doubly so if she is naked!
I decided I wanted a lap dance, so I texted my boyfriend to see if that was okay. This is not because he’s a control freak, but rather because I was very anti-strip clubs for men in relationships when he and I first started dating. So I didn’t feel I could get a lap dance if I had been so "no way" to him. Well, he had no problem with it – probably seeing lots of lap dances in his own future. And mainly because he’s just super cool.
But I never got the dance – I was feeling I had spent way too much money as it was. And then I wasn’t able to find the woman I wanted the dance from. So I went back to my hotel.
But it was wonderful. And – don’t laugh – the women’s bathroom was really clean. That really says it all to me – it wasn’t a dive and it wasn’t gross. Even the guys were well-behaved. Though boy did Alena take them by storm! Did you know she did fire dancing? OMG – she set herself on fire. It was just jaw-dropping.
And for the record, yes, I did feel a little insecure. I’m a cutie, but – as anyone who chats with me soon learns – I wish, wish, wish I had bigger hips. Alas, this is not to be, so I did feel a little worried. But my lovely man assuaged all my concerns and left me thinking I was quite the little hottie.
P.S. Listen to your gut – if you force yourself to go when you’re not ready, you’ll hate it. If you ever want to, then go. I would have hated it a few years ago, too.
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You just summed up my entire winter. Not only does the pole not ever warm up – I have a stainless steel, but not PS (it’s a LM), but my hands never warm up at all, either. A horrid combination resulting in pathetic pole sessions. So glad the weather is heating up!
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So what is Xpole made of that PS isn’t, that makes X less slippery?
I’m guessing your PS is better in summer because it’s stainless, which is slippery as hell when cold. No?
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It is fun being able to do even beginning inverts!
I still don’t know how you got private videos on Youtube. That never worked when I tried it. Wonder what I did wrong.
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Good tips, everyone. Have you had success setting videos to private, then? I tried that on Youtube and no one was able to get in. I finally couldn’t deal with all my friends emailing and saying they weren’t able to see it and just made it public.
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I try that, but kind of go clunk. Alena’s been teaching me to use my left hand to ease myself coming down – apparently my short-waisted torso doesn’t give me as much room to curl around the pole easily as it might, so this has helped. But I’m still working on it.
I know you’re on a break from pole, Glitter, but I want you to know how much I love your pole dancing and look forward to the day I can do all the moves that you do and transition between them so beautifully!
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Thanks for recommending Curvydva – I’ll check her out, too!
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Fabulous!
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She was just making a friendly suggestion, a way for me to increase conditioning without a lot of effort. I think it just backfired.
You know, it occurs to me that I learned to belly dance – and got very proficient at it – taking just one class per week, and NEVER practicing on my own. So I think I’ll keep that in mind.
It’s just been so funny how I didn’t even want to pole jam yesterday. I had been so excited about it, and then I kept thinking I had to find my 5 minutes (!) and I flipped out and did nothing.
It’s possible I’m weirder than I realized. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
P.S. The Rocky beastlet says hi and kisses you back, Sascha!
