Discussions

A member shared their recent wig purchase, inspired by cabin fever and a desire for long hair. They asked if anyone had recommendations for wig manufacturers.

A member initiated a thread hoping to organise a pole jam in the New England area, ideally between now and September. They previously tried to arrange one in February without success.

A member shared photos of a competition outfit they designed and created, aiming for a fantasy-themed look that was both artistic and secure for pole work. They were inspired by figure skating costumes.

A member announced the grand opening of their new studio and shared details about workshops being held with a guest instructor. The workshops cover a range of levels, from beginner to advanced, and focus on different pole skills.

The author is seeking advice after a disagreement with their mother about childcare. Their mother repeatedly favors the older grandchild and attempted to watch only the three-year-old while the author was at work.

The author is experiencing stage fright while pole dancing, even in private for her partner. She's worried about looking foolish and struggles to relax and enjoy herself, despite feeling confident and comfortable in other areas of her life.

Someone asked about subscribing to the video lessons for only one month, and whether it was possible to avoid an automatic recurring payment. They also inquired about the cancellation process if they decided not to continue.

The author started a thread asking about members' diet and exercise routines, hoping to find inspiration and encouragement for improving fitness. Many people shared their experiences with weight loss, clean eating, and pole-specific training.

The author expressed concern about potential inappropriate users on the platform, wondering if there are checks to ensure profiles belong to genuine polers. They were prompted to ask by experiences on other sites with similar issues.

Someone is struggling to stay motivated with their flexibility training, finding it boring and slow to see results. They are looking for tips on how to make stretching more engaging and consistent.

Someone announced the launch of their new digital pole dancing magazine, 'Six Inch Heels', and shared details about the first issue's content. They were hoping for feedback and submissions from the community.

Someone shared their success learning a move called 'The Daredevil' after seeing it demonstrated in a chat. They expressed gratitude for the recommendation and shared a link to a video of the move.

The author is asking about whether their studio will adopt the standardized pole move names being developed by an association. Their instructor attended a convention and received a glossary of these 'official' names.

The author is looking to purchase a 45mm pole and is having trouble finding where to buy one on the site. They would prefer to order from this site but are considering another option if necessary.

The author shared a frustrating experience where a coworker's computer was seized after the author showed her a pole dance video at work. This led to a company-wide ban on pole-related websites and a meeting about appropriate internet usage.

Someone is visiting the San Diego area for a few weeks and is looking for pole dance studio recommendations, ideally one with open pole time. They are hoping for suggestions from people familiar with the local studios.

Someone noticed they couldn't view videos in full screen mode and asked if others were experiencing the same issue. They were wondering if a recent change had affected the viewing options.

Someone asked the community about the best way to record pole sessions and what software people use for video editing. They were curious about options ranging from dedicated cameras to webcams.

Someone asked the community to help name a pole move they were trying to identify. They had searched for the name but couldn't find it.

The author is preparing for the Irish Pole Championships and asked for advice on body and mental preparation, dealing with nerves, and performing on a wobbly pole. They shared their anxieties about the competition.

Someone shared information about an intermediate/advanced pole workshop with Jenyne Butterfly at Curvy Diva in Joliet, IL. The workshop will focus on slow, controlled movements and transitions.

Someone proposed organising a studio competition, similar to a 'Battle of the Bands', and asked if anyone would be interested in helping with the planning. They were thinking of holding it in October.

Someone is having trouble locating their membership expiry date on the website. They are hoping to find this information so they can plan for renewal.

This person is new to pole dancing and recently gifted themselves a pole after enjoying a class. They are excited for their pole to arrive and are motivated to work on their fitness.

A new member introduced themself, sharing that they've been pole dancing for over two years and is looking to connect with others now that they've moved away from their studio. They are excited to learn new tricks and be part of the community.