Discussions

The author shared an article questioning the transparency and impact of 'pink ribbon' campaigns, asking people to critically evaluate how much of their purchase actually goes to charity. They encouraged direct donations instead if unsure.

Someone noticed they excel at certain skin grips like elbow and thigh holds and asked if there are less common grips they could explore. They were hoping for suggestions and resources.

The author is returning to pole after a two-year break following a six-week introductory course. They are feeling anxious about regaining their skills and strength, and asked if others have had similar experiences.

Someone was curious about Pleaser stretch thigh-high boots, specifically regarding fit and ease of getting them on and off. They shared a link to a particular style and asked about others' experiences.

Someone is asking if anyone is selling a 45mm chrome pole for a friend who is new to pole dancing. They are hoping to find a more affordable option to start with.

Someone announced an upcoming pole showcase in Manhattan on July 14th, 2012, and invited people to register to perform. They shared that the previous showcase was very successful and featured many first-time performers.

A member asked for advice on transitioning from jumping into inverts to lifting, as they've been poling for 17 weeks and are struggling to lift themselves. They were seeking exercises to improve their technique.

The author shared their experience of hand swelling and stiffness after starting aerial silks, alongside concerns about potential Rheumatoid Arthritis. They were curious if others had experienced similar issues.

The author started a thread asking for funny phrases specific to pole dancers, inspired by a series of 'things people say' videos. They shared a few examples to get the conversation going.

Someone asked if glitter hairspray would be safe to use on a skirt for pole dancing, concerned about the glitter transferring to the pole or damaging it. They were hoping for advice on whether it would affect performance.

The author shared a heartwarming story about teaching a pole dance routine to two women as a Valentine's Day surprise for their husbands. They were beginners with no dance experience, but delivered a magical performance.

Someone new to lap dancing is planning a performance for their boyfriend for Valentine's Day and asked for song suggestions and advice for building confidence. They are still learning and want to prepare.

A member was deciding between a 45mm and 50mm X-pert titanium gold pole for their home setup, having used 50mm in classes. They were concerned about wrist strain and making the right 'forever' pole choice.

Someone shared a video of two male Chinese pole dancers, noting their strength, synchronicity, and the unique stickiness of the poles. They wanted to share the inspiring performance with the community.

Someone asked for information about a drops workshop in Michigan and other similar workshops closer to Kentucky. They were hoping to find resources for learning drops.

The author shared a Valentine's Day message about self-love and recognizing love in different forms, including from students, family, pets, and internal validation. They also included a video link.

The author wished everyone a Happy Valentine's Day, encouraging people to show love to others and themselves. They acknowledged the holiday's artificial nature but appreciated it as a reminder to express affection.

A member asked about the durability of their tacky ankle guards, specifically how long others' guards lasted before needing replacement. They were hoping for tips on extending the life of the tack strips.

The author shared that a segment featuring them aired on Inside Edition. They were nervous about how they would be portrayed and shared some details about the filming process.

Someone is excited to have started pole dancing and is enjoying both their home pole and classes. They are asking about outdoor pole installations, specifically height and how to secure the pole in the ground.

A new member from Australia shared their excitement about achieving their first shoulder mount, elbow grip and split grip Aysha after 11 months of pole dancing. They were looking for a community to share their successes with who would understand the feeling.

The author is returning to pole after a break and is wondering how to blend learned moves, like spins and inverts, into a more fluid, dance-like style, particularly with music. They struggle to find music that naturally fits with trick transitions.

This member is preparing for their first pole competition after polling for around three years. They are feeling nervous about performing in front of an audience and are seeking advice, particularly regarding managing nerves and choosing a song.

The author, a dancer with a background in ballet and jazz, is new to pole dancing and is asking for recommendations on which pole to buy, considering price and durability. They also asked about typical beginner struggles with tricks.

The author is preparing for a pole competition and is concerned about sweaty hands affecting their performance. They’ve tried several grip aids with limited success and are considering using pole gloves, but worry about appearing to ‘cheat’ or becoming reliant on them.