Glad to hear everyone seems to agree and accept that we are all so diff and that really comes to bear on how we take on Ayeshas... I thought elbow was a great go-to for a 1st-timer as that's what I got 1st after mastering the cat climb... and of course there's all the warnings with twisted grip tho I personally never had issues as I always have been comfortable in any upright twisted grip pose/move/etc...
So turns out I learned my next Ayesha hold as a Twisted Grip in a workshop by *descending* (really unraveling) into it from a Scorpio -- wow how solid I felt!!! Soon after that came doing the same from a layback, then a BM... I was loving TG as much as anyone does, but I also immediately started noticing the *funky* feeling in my bottom shoulder (no NOT the twisted top one!) *AFTER* I would come out of it... I never sustained any injury from this but I started suspecting that *funkiness* I was feeling was indicative of the kinds of problems that hold can cause for an Ayesha, as we all are pretty fairly warned... I can't imagine for anyone who struggles more with twisted grips being more uncomfortable or unnatural due to tighter shoulders, etc -- how THEY would fare with a TG Ayesha... No Bueno... So to be safe, I started easing away from playing with that hold much anymore and sticking with practicing other holds...
Wow that darn Split Grip always eluded me, BUT along the way thanks to an awesome David Owen workshop I discovered I had a rock solid CUP GRIP Ayesha!!! What an awesome feeling that was and I feel so in control with that hold I STRONGLY encourage all Ayesh-ers out there to give it a try. Such a natural comfortable grip, and like Veena talks about above, u can keep that elbow bent and it's such a relief of ur body weight burden on your upper body by spreading it out more... and like one of the other posters here mentioned feeling more control or security by having more distance from the pole -- YUP! Ditto! And in cup grip, problem solved: you get all that distance you could possibly want from the pole to feel more locked in with good lateral force (push into the pole)...
Now to make matters more complicated is what happens when instead of coming DOWN ("descending") into an Ayesha, you lift UP into it -- what a different story, at least for ME. My best most solid *handspring* turns out to be a SPLIT GRIP one yet in SG is my weakest Ayesha when descending into it!!! Go figure! Next most secure handspring hold is Twisted Grip but I hate how trapped I feel in those holds... & the idea of cup and elbow handspring scares the crap out of me... I maybe just need a spotter to try it, but for now lifting UP into Ayesha I'm all about the split grip. Yes confusing and I kind of know intuitively what's the deal and why this is the case... But to explain clearly in words why this weird variation in arm/hand holds in descending vs Ascending (i.e. Via handspring) Into Ayeshas, works best for me -- not sure I could pull off such an explanation ....
Hang in there! You'll prob OWN all Ayeshas in no time!