The author asked for advice on teaching their 11-year-old twin boys pole moves and how to navigate discussing their hobby with them, especially given concerns about societal perceptions. They want to avoid reinforcing negative stereotypes.
What the replies say: Many members suggested focusing on the strength and fitness aspects of pole, framing it as a cutting-edge activity. Several shared experiences with their own children, noting that kids often see it as fun exercise. Others advised respecting children's comfort levels and protecting them from potential ridicule.
AI-generated, may be imprecise · updated 9/9/2026
