life events and poling

This was a initially a response to Yogabeachbabe's reply on the "tips for pregnancy and poling" forum that catharsis posted, but since my post is unrelated to pregnancy, i'm posting it here. I just had to say that i loved yogabeachbabe's story. I too have been in situations where i was doing something that wasn't good for me, and then something "bad" happens that forces me or pushes me to change what it is i'm doing. Sometimes these events happen more subtly, so they don't actually "force" you to change, but rather they attract your attention towards something. You just have to 'open' to accepting this type of thing in order to notice it and benefit from it. And many times, when something 'bad' happens to us, it's hard to understand why at the time. But i truly believe that if we try to learn something from the experience, connect it to our lives, and follow our instincts, we will later on be able to look back and realize that there was a reason for that event. And of course, this can also apply to poling, since for most of us it is an important part of our sense of well being and fulfillment. Sorry if this sounded a bit superstitious, it's really not, just too complicated for me to talk about any further 🙂 I know that many people may see things differently than me, and completely disagree with what i just wrote (and that's totally ok by me, and i hope it's ok by you too!) but I'd love to hear if anyone has a story about a 'coincidental' or meaningful event that led them to begin/discover pole-dancing, that helped them in accomplishing something in pole-dancing, or led them to discover something about themselves in relation to this (or anything along these lines). thanks for listening to my perception of life 🙂