It really is what you make of it around them.

Funny story, two nights ago my 3rd oldest asked if he and a few friends could use our yard (he has his own apt) to have a bonfire and hangout. We said of course. Well they didn’t come over until late and my husband and I were asleep we stayed asleep throughout the bonfire. At about 2 am I heard a weird noise coming from below our home (where my studio is). It took a minute, but I soon realized they were playing around on my pole hahah.